HappyNakedChick said: I always prefer a man to massage me and while I don't go regularly, I've had 3 experiences that were outside of the "traditional" appointment.
I am always nude when I lay on the table and request No Draping, please. I explain that I am a Nudist and I am most relaxed without it, as I find the drape distracting. Sometimes the MT will accommodate my wishes and sometimes it is explained to me that it is a matter of massage etiquette to use the drape, as it is being applied to me. If that happens, I let it be, because I don't want to make the MT uncomfortable. My position on the matter has been conveyed and if things progress from there, the door has been opened.
These are the abbreviated versions of each story (all are true, of course):
1. Local Private Practice
I made a 90 minute appointment with a local MT who had his own business in his own private studio. To my knowledge, he does not have anyone else working for him and by the size of the studio, he appears to be the sole proprietor. I explained my Nudist/No Drape position and he told me to relax and enjoy the massage, no drape was applied. I also told him that I prefer a lot of oil for massage which he also accommodated. When he got to my breasts, which are large, he did a great job fully massaging them inclufing the nipples, taking his time and listening to my involuntary but sincere moans of pleasure. As he massaged my upper legs and the insides of my thighs, I parted my legs deliberately as his hands moved closer to my pussy. I did not want him to be worried that he might mistake my "invitation" and I uttered a soft plea for him to Please, Please as I spread my legs wider. He gradually slid his fingers around my pussy and I provided verbal affirmations that I was enjoying this massage and I wanted more. Again, abbreviating the story, he rubbed me until I came and we shared a smile and a friendly hug before I left. It was a terrific massage, I was both energized and relaxed for the rest of the day. It was the first time I'd ever been so blatant about what I wanted with a MT that I'd never met before and I felt empowered on top of energized and relaxed. I hope the MT carried with him the same sense of satisfaction that I did after that experience with him.
2. At a Spa, On Vacation
Emboldened by the private practice experience, when I went on vacation, some time later, I booked a massage at the Spa. In filling out the paperwork, asking what areas I would like focused upon, I included Breasts. When I got to the room and presented the clipboard to the MT, he commented when he read my Focus Areas, that I must be a woman who Knows What She Needs. I shared the Nudist/No Drape preference and he said that would be no problem at all. The massage started pretty normally, but he did massage my butt fully and after I turned over, and he got to my upper body, he asked me how I would like my breasts massaged. I wasn't expecting that question and I stammered a bit, missing my opportunity (hindsight is 20:20) to say, feel free to use your mouth, if you like. But, I didn't, I referred to the level of pressure I preferred, asked that he use plenty of oil, don't neglect my nipples, please and told him to take his time, as I really enjoy this part of a massage. He did as I asked. At one point, as he was along side of me, I turned my palm outward as he leaned in toward the table and I cupped his crotch. I was delighted when he responded by moving into my hand. We did this a few times as he massaged my upper body and then proceeded to the top of the table. After a bit of massage from that angle, I heard him drop his shorts. I smiled; this massage was getting Better and Better. Again, abbreviating the story, with my unstated yet clear encouragement, he had me slide up on the table, which I did lazily, enthusiastically, draping my head backward. I took him into my mouth and shall we say, we both enjoyed my massage at that point. I again felt empowered by being clear about what I wanted and coming out of my appointment fully satisfied.
3. In My Home
In the days of Craigslist, I found a local man who said that while not a professional, he enjoyed giving massages and had his own table and was willing to make House Calls. I had a cousin coming to visit who'd never had a massage, so I asked him if he would come to my house and massage us both. He did. She did not know how I knew him and I preferred it that way, he was willing to keep my little secret. I don't know what happened during her massage, but after she enjoyed it, we retreated, all 3 of us, to the patio and enjoyed a couple of glasses of wine in the warm summer night air. I'd intentionally booked this late in the evening and she has always retired early at night, so by that time, she was barely able to slip into the shower before falling quickly asleep, I presume, as I had my massage. Again, abbreviating the story, I was fully nude and undraped and encouraged him to give me the full treatment, which he did. I also enjoyed a throat massage, as did he. When the time came, I had another glass of wine as he packed up and I gave him a friendly kiss and sent him home. My cousin never knew anything more but raved about what a wonderful Massage Night!
Ahhh...aren't massages just the BEST???
I guess I should have been a little "bolder"
Thank You for your experiences.