I like it slow with lots of tongue...and lots of spit and some hand action throughout...


If I have that, I'm a happy guy...

PS- links to videos of what you like if you have them please

i'm with you on the variation thing. a little hand play before is good. i like it started off slower, more teasing and sensual, long slow strokes with the hand, building up to faster, deeper mouth action with stronger hand strokes. but sometimes, depending on the mood, i enjoy starting off fast and sloppy rather than having things more drawn out.

and dont forget the balls. gotta give em a little attention.

And, yum, let me know if you need someone to practice on.

I think it varies from person to person.
I like vigorous.

I like it better if the licking/sucking begins while I'm still soft, starting off slow. I like the feeling of it growing in the person's mouth. Once I'm hard, I like some variety, some licking, some sucking, and some hand action. I love it when the tongue is swirled around my cock head while it is in the person's mouth. The underside of the head is quite sensitive, and too much licking on that one spot makes me cum too quickly. I also like to have my balls played with during the BJ. When I get close to cumming, the person stopping just long enough to tell me they want my cum can help take me over the edge, especially if they say they want me to cum on their mouth.

i like it long and slow with a lot of tongue action..
sucking on my cock as she is licking my balls
at the same time also she would be looking at
me to see my facial expressions.
love long licks along my sharft up and down
before exploding into her mouth....
and to end with a big smile on my face..

yummymm,

me thinks you're just fishing for good blowjob videos.

so, here are few I like, and where the women show excellent skills

Video Store Blowjob

Throat Fuck

Very Nice Blowjob

Blowjob and Swallow

Amateur Blowjob

Brilliant Blowjob.

Hope these help, but you know if you ever need someone to practice on....

Anything performed my you Yummy!

Also, lots of ball action!

Hmm.

Lots of spit!

I like a bit of hand action in there too! Either that, or no hand action whatsoever, but taking it deep

Somehow i cant imagine ever getting a blowjob from yummymmm that i wouldn't be satisfied with. lol

Well I know that the best blowjobs are ones unasked for. When my wife comes to me and is just burning with desire to suck my cock... mmmmm thats when its the best. But generally I like it to be slow, methodical. Like she is savoring every moment, and gradually getting more intense as I get closer to cumming. I also love to see some kinkyness as well, sometimes she'll slap my cock on her face, or rub it all over her... Titfucking is ALWAYS a nice addition to a bj, and if you can deepthroat its all gravy... Oh! also I prefer my lady to swallow, nothing sexier than watching her take a load on her tongue and watching it all disappear after she swallows.
hope that was more helpful than wordy... its just been a while, and ive had bjs on the mind. Wife is away in boot camp, so bjs for me

Oh and i have to agree with magnet, eye contact can really make the bj unforgettable. I love to look down into her eyes and see her satisfied with the amount of pleasure she is giving me...

yummymmm thought i recently seen a post by you doing 69 BUT fyi depends on circumstance quicky BJs in change rooms at the local shopping centre are hot & daring BUT when there is time slow & sensual with plenty lip, tongue & saliva

Is when I get to go down on you first, or at the same time...

Nice and slow at first building a little as it goes on. Lots of tonguing and in and out. Deepthroat if she can. Swallow is always nice.

I am a female, so my personal experience on this topic stops at observing and giving over the years.

I know some like to use a mouth as a pussy...which can be fun, too...but I think you are missing out on an incredible experience if it is just up and down, up and down, deep and deeper, then squirt squirt. Think massage, instead.

When you get in the zone, you should just forget about everything but his cock. Just focus entirely on his dick and even forget about him to a certain extent. Think of ALL the nooks and crannies of his cock and balls; the different textures, some extra fleshy and some firm, some extra sensitive and some less sensitive. Feel every single curve and crevice with your tongue.

If his dick is not dripping with spit, if you don't have saliva dripping down your chin like a fucking animal...then you ain't doing it right.

Tease him. Prolong the BJ so that when he cums it is intense. Change the rhythm of your strokes and licks when he seems to be getting too close. Make the poor boy beg for it. No worries. He'll thank you later.

Beware working his dickhead too long. It can lose feeling.

Use your hands, too. They can compliment your mouth and tongue perfectly. Give him a full experience.

My husband loves having his skin pulled back and held taut at the base of his shaft with my hand pressed rather hard against his body.

While you are sucking his balls, there is no reason you shouldn't be using your (wet) hands on his dick.

Be sure to get lots of input from him about his balls until you get to know them well. They can handle some rough play, yet the gentlest touch in the wrong way can hurt 'em like hell. So, be careful, at first.

From my experience of being in a long-term, monogamous relationship, giving mind-blowing head is an important key to a happy relationship. Don't let your man go out with his friends or to that strip club until his balls have been well drained by you. Seriously.

Every man is different. Ask the guy what he likes and take the time to learn him and his body. The above is just works for me and my husband. Have fun!

I'm with you on the variation thing. a little hand play before is good. i like it started off slower, more teasing and sensual, long slow strokes with the hand, building up to faster, deeper mouth action with stronger hand strokes. but sometimes, depending on the mood, i enjoy starting off fast and sloppy rather than having things more drawn out and don't forget the balls. gotta give em a little attention. I also like to have my balls played with during the BJ. Once in a while after a good hot shower a little tongue up the as is good too.

Oh yeah and what FUN RED does too...all sounds good to me. Damn I'm horny just thinking about it!

Speaking of starting off....


Feeling a dick getting hard inside your mouth is pretty fucking awesome. Try it. You'll like it.

Usually, some play with just his balls will get his dick hard...or just some teasing by kissing and licking and sucking him everywhere but his dick. Then, you start off with very wet, soft strokes on his dickhead... barely touching his skin. Slowly give him more until, out of nowhere, you FINALLY take his dick in your mouth. Don't take it all when he tells you to, but rather when YOU decide.

I don't think I'm offering any new suggestions here, but how can I *not* chime in on a thread titled The Perfect Blowjob?

What gets me off is (this could be a powerpoint slide):

- Lots of variety: hands, lips, tongue, throat - hard squeezes with a fist, light flicking with the tongue and everything in between. Varying the speed of the action. Lots of saliva is a plus.

- Attention to the whole package: shaft, balls, cock head. Massaging that spot at the base of the scrotum, the perineum, feels incredible.

- Some good eye contact (omg - very hot) and I love long hair brushing the inside of my thighs

- Okay, and maybe this is shallow, but being asked where I want to blow my load is really exciting

Yep, I'm all worked up now. [blowjob smilie here]

FunRed talking about dicks and what she does with them...

Not bored now, are you

I like her to touch me first, then some slow long kissing of my cock, add some tongue to the tip. Slowly go all the way down, deep throat, some more sliding in and out of her mouth, some real hard vacumm sucking, a little biting then really suck hard while she strokes me good till I cum in her mouth. Then some long slow kissing of her lips and tasting of what she just recieved. Yes I do kiss her after.

The perfect blowjob is the one I'm getting at that given moment! I ain't greedy!

Like her to start off slow and tease me woking her way down my stomach with kisses, feeling her breasts brush agasint my cock as I'm starting to get hard then swilring her tongue softly around the head and running her tongue up and down my shaft while she squeezes my balls and strokes me. As I more turned on she takes it deeper and faster until I'm thrusting into her mouth, fucking it until I explode.

Some guys will disagree. I always like a little teeth now and then. Sort of like getting your back scratched. Always ask them first if they like this -- done wrong it can hurt.

Wow I am so surprised! And ridiculously turned on reading all these replies. It sounds like what guys like is a lot more similar to what I like done to me than I had realized. It sounds like I can take my time a lot more than I have been, which is good because I love love love giving head. Lots of great suggestions, I can't wait to try them out

Also, reallllllly looking forward to watching those videos!

perfect blow job... well if you were there that's perfect enough for me. hehe

someone wif no teeth
they seem to have more spit for some reason ,and there aint nuffink like a good moist wet slurpy sounding BJ

Elves86 makes a very good point....

"the best blowjobs are ones unasked for."

Also, a "surprise attack" blowjob, when unexpectedly the giver kneels in front of you, or sits in a chair and pulls you next to them, then pulls out your cock and begins sucking on it is VERY erotic.

Unasked for blowjobs...yes they are sweet!!!

When my wife and I were dating, she came down to spend the night at my parent's home. She got my bedroom and I was sleeping on the couch in the living room. About an hour after everyone else had gone to bed Mom was in the kitchen doing something, (she's always up late) and my now wife slipped into the living room and knelt down beside the couch.

She fished my cock out of my underwear and proceeded to give me a blowjob. I'm laying there hoping Mom doesn't come into the room, hoping I can stay quiet, (I'm a moaner ) and hoping it never ends.

She (my wife) never said a word, just swallowed it all when I came, got up, and went back to bed.


OMG, was that intense.