well I've been particularly aroused at the thought of fucking total stranger's with unsuspecting husbands and the last one I've actually had an affair with for nearly one year told me her husband had found out and that she had to break things off.
She went on to tell me he didn't find out about our affair but some other guy she'd been banging on the side and that she'd have to break it off with all of us.
They had been married over 15 years and she'd told me in the beginning she wasn't planning on leaving him, which was fine with me, because I'd just gotten out of a shitty marriage of 15 years myself so I was kind of using her as a revenge or reason to justify to my conscience for fucking a married woman.
I must say it did sting a bit as I'd grown quite fond of her over the course of a year and the sex was the best I think I've ever had even up until now, some 20 years later.
So I'd suggest a long process of thinking it through from every angle, and asking yourself if he would leave you or not.
If he did leave how would you feel about it, would life be better with or without him.
Life is too short to be anything less than happy and the only thing I regret about my decision to get out of my shitty marriage is that I didn't choose to get out of it sooner. I stayed in it maybe 7 years longer than I should have, thinking maybe one day something would click with her and she'd see her actions effected me as much as my actions effected her, but she's crazy so she doesn't have a rational thought process.
Whatever your decision is, I wish you the absolute best and most importantly happiness.
Xo, Doug..