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Been to a number of them. Rule #1: be respectful and don't have expectations. NONE. Maybe something will happen for you, maybe not. It doesn't happen for everybody every time no matter what.
#3: Don't be afraid to ask people if they want to play. That's why they're there, too, after all. Everyone's there because it's a swing club so you can talk about the idea.
#4: Pay close attention to the first-timer's orientation because those are the rules of the road and you will be expected to follow them closely. (You can get thrown out and even banned if you don't.)
#4, cont: The rules are going to be strongly about consent, no means NO, which areas are for what kinds of play and can others watch, and other things. Feel free to ask questions then or later.
Finally, relax. You're there to have a good time and you will. Enjoy the facilities there. Every club is different. You can watch people, you can wander around and see what's happening....
If you don't find someone to play with, there's no reason you can't play by yourself. (Someone may come offer to watch or help, even!) I'm keen on lounging in the hot tub and unkinking muscles....
...and the hot tub is a perfect low-impact way to chat with people and break the ice and see if they're interested in playing. If naught else, you're in a hot tub with naked, horny people. Cool beans!
Oh, good point, Artistic! Yes, most clubs charge single men a premium and/or limit the number of single men. Check way in advance; don't expect to just show up and get in.
Thanks for the advice guys, my local club is hu9 club in hull they welcome single guys but just charge a bit more to get in. So basically go sit back relax, don't expect anything and be respectful.
East_Yorks_man Yes, but don't forget to have fun. Most clubs will have dinner of some kind (buffet, usually) and it's a good place to start interacting. Ask someone if you can join her/them and talk.