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WendySilvia

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Relationships, starting out.

14-Sep-25 15:31

I am curious about sharing with new potential mates..

What information do you share at first? What do you keep to yourself.. and for how long?

Is it being dishonest, to not sharing things about yourself upfront?

What scares you away from a potential mate in the beginning?

What information do you never share?

Thanks for any and all comments about this.. I am very interested in how others view this area of getting to know your new mate.

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dziga

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23-Feb-26 03:30

Been with my partner for around 20 years so been a long time

I am a firm believer that the more that is shared the better. Not on the first date but before taking on serious commitment the less secrets the better off and more compatible both will be IMO. My partner knew I was on and enjoyed NN before we made a thing of our relationship. I imagine it is a hard sell if they don't approve of things like that to lay it on them a few years in...

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