BadJess's blog post - The single life.........

Something happend to me yeaterday that make me think about the pros & cons of being single rather than being in a relationship. Right now for me it's a bit of a no-brainer, I married young & it turned out to be to a guy who just couldn't be trusted & once that's gone so is he I'm afraid.

Naturally at first there were times when I missed having a man around the house, not just for the sex but for company, conversation & companionship. I have since learned that I have some wonderful friends who more than compensate for any loss I may feel.

What I have learned is that there's plenty of fun to be had for a single girl in this day & age. It's probably me living out some of my youth that I missed out on when friends were going out & having casual sex with hot guys they met that night.

I have mentioned my boy toy & some of the other naughty things I'm getting up to in previous blogs & status updates & to be perfectly honest I'm having the time of my life!!!

Boy toy is just perfect for me right now, we meet up at his place or mine, have some dinner then just get naked to have an evening of super hot sex. I see him once or twice a week & have done for a couple of months but we've only slept in the same bed overnight twice I think.

Nights with my threesome friends are much the same - apart from the added bonuses of him being hung like a rhino & his woman taking me to some whole new places I've never been before sexually!

Neither seek to control, influence or pressure me in any way. They both know about each other & there's even talk of a future foursome. We'll see on that one though.

Nights out with the girls are a whole lot different now too because most of them are in relationships so it's me they look to for the gossip when I've gone home with a guy. I quite like it too lol.

Now all this talk of sex may make me sound like a bit of a slut but I don't care how people judge me. If I had a man they wouldn't bat an eyelid if I was getting fucked three nights a week. Why the fuck should I miss out on having a great sex life just because I'm single?

Without sounding all full of myself I have no trouble finding guys who want me - I work out, look after my skin, eat well & work hard keeping in this shape. If a hot guy decides to hit on me it's then my decision if I want to fuck him & guess what - I LOVE TO FUCK!!!!!!!!

So there we go people - I'm single, loving it, am going to remain so for the forseeable future but all through that time I'll be getting my fair share of sex along the way. Whoop!

Later y'all, must decide if I want to see boy toy later or the hottie who gave me his number in a bar the other night. Hmmmmmm, decisions!

Jess xxxx