Funny, it starts as pure desire, some intangible feeling that you get when the person in the photo does something that gets to you, you make contact, and then you want to know so much more. You try to be cool about it, but you're dying to know what she does for a living, where she travels, what excites her...

Some women just push my buttons.

I can’t predict just who and why, but sometimes there’s a sort of chemistry that develops very early on with some people that make you feel like you’ve known them for a long time. Sort of a long-time lover/buddy feel that happens soon after meeting.

Of course it’s related to finding the other person attractive, but it’s more than that. I don’t get this feeling from women that I casually notice. It’s related to personality as well as physical attractiveness, but, then again, I think the two go hand-in-hand.

As I get a little older (I’m in my early 40’s), I find myself paying much more attention to a woman’s sexiness than to just her vital statistics. And by sexiness I mean intelligence, wit, sense of adventure, ability to titillate and flirt, sense of joy. All of these combine to create the sexual persona of the other person. And if any of them is missing, I find the person flawed to some extent.

Of course none of this is planned. It’s not like there’s some big sexual college interview. (“Hmmmm, your tits and tan GPA are pretty good, but we wish you were a little more well-rounded in the sense of humor area. We’ll call you…” It’s something that, I suppose, has always gone on, but now I’m becoming more aware of it and its effect on my relationships.

Any thoughts?

As I've gotten a little more familiar with NN, I've started reading some of the blogs here, and think that some of them are really pretty interesting. I've done blogs on other (non-adult) sites, and thought that it might be interesting to explore an adult blog.

This post is a test to see how the system works. I'll put something a little more interesting here over the next day or so...