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Jeepetr's blog post - HMMMMMMMM

Monday, April 23, 2012, 8:59:32 PM
WOW, where to begin.

I have some friends that are a FF couple. Great girls, not playmates, just friends. The other day I was texting with one of them and she said that they had been thinking about having a baby. I told them that would be awesome and congrats....then she said they wanted to use my sperm.

I was totally cool with it and told her i would donate. Then she said "GREAT, we are both off the pill and are looking forward to seeing which one gets pregnant first!"

My jaw dropped a little and I asked "Am i doing this into a cup or..........?" She said "we were hoping we could cut out the middle man and you could just fuck us till one of us gets pregnant"

OK, so here is my problem.... As many of you know I did father a child once and we lost him just after birth. I was perfectly ok with donating....but actually making one.....i am very torn.

On one hand i would be honored to help them and am honored that they asked me to be the father.

On the other......i am not sure i could father a child and not raise it....

ugh


Jeep

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24-Apr-12 0:51:11
Wow...that is an interesting situation. Just look at it this way Jeep....you were going to be the sperm donor anyway. This method is just more fun than Penthouse and the plastic cup ;)
30-Apr-12 14:39:43
Ok, I can see how this could be difficult. I'm thinking you need to find someone to talk to about your feelings and thoughts on this.

It's interesting that you balanced "honored" with "not sure I could father a child and not raise it".

Jeep, you have to decide what weight to put on each of those things. Do they really balance in the long run, or is one side of that scale heavier in your mind?

It also sounds like there is something about "actually making one" that personalizes it to you.

I won't give my opinion unless you ask for it. Let me know if you want to chat more here or in private. (Fair warning, I am a psychotherapist by profession, lol)

In friendship,

Ron