Thanks to Emu's amazing skills, I present:

Ranting ahead.... enter at your own risk.


Some dude:
I know you said you aren't seeking but...
...but we're neighbors since I live near Phoenix, so I'm hoping you'll make an exception?
One doesn't get if one doesn't ask, so I'm asking. All best from the beautiful (this time of year, anyway) desert! Hope you and yours are well!

Me:
We are not neighbors, lol

Some clearly entitled dude:
Hey Miss A...You're being a tad literal, don't you think? I just used a broader idea of neighbor in case you wanted to hook up since I live only 35 miles f/Downtown PHX. You don't wanna hook up, no worries, but you're the one showcasing your ass online. When you choose to do that (unless some "friend" of yours posted the photo without your consent), you're asking for feedback.
Happy Hump Day tomorrow, since you clearly won't be getting humped.
Cheers, (name redacted)


Side bar:
No, friends... I have never lived in Arizona. If I DID I would be extremely uncomfortable with someone pushing that issue after being told no, as well.
So, I don't get it.... I don't understand the anger from my response... And I rarely do. You think that because you feel and behave this way, every other guy does too? Because you are sorely mistaken.. I could make a list miles long of guys who do not behave this way... Hard dick or no hard dick! You're a big boy, after all- it is well past time to grow the fuck up.

It's really just a SHOCKER how some people can't manage to get laid. ASTONISHING. All those years on this planet and you learned sOoO much about women in that time. /S

Honestly though...Yes, I am "triggered". What makes someone thinks they can tell me what to do with my ass? Why am I somehow now also required to cater to their demands? Was that in some TOS that I signed here? 'Cause I missed that memo... and you wouldn't be getting a showcase of any kind if that is what was expected of me or any of the other actual women here. So many years here, on the internet... and so little growth for some.

Anywho....
Back from vacation and back to the house grind... I have gravel to go see today, and possibly power poles? Pleaaaase let there be power poles!

Def more fun than whatever this guy had planned for me this week. 🙃

xo

Not everyone wants what you want. Not everyone needs what you need. It's important to consider that when giving (especially unsolicited) advice...

My life/relationships will never be the "normal" way of doing things.
And after many years of tears and heartache, and giving too much of myself to people who didn't deserve it...
I realized that I actually prefer things this way.