10 Year reflection on NN

So its been 10 years I have been on this site and I’ve learned a lot of things and my bio says it all right now. A lot of people have said they have gained confidence on this site. Well it’s the opposite for me, I have lost confidence cause of this site. Over the years I have gained some friends but also lost some friends or people I thought were friends. I have changed over the years and the site has changed over the years. The biggest site change I have seen has been the adding of ID in order to post pics. I don’t like this rule at all, Yes I know its not the sites fault and it’s a business decision but I don’t feel I need to ID in order to prove who I am cause I know who I am and people that have been here long enough know who I am and I feel I don’t need to prove anything to anyone as to who I am, I had a gold shield at one time to prove I am real. The Credit card companys issued this change and the site needed to change to make money I simply am NOT going to adopt to this change as I don’t agree with it. I mean if the credit card companys told you to jump over a bridge are you gonna do it? I am simply not going to be a follower. Yes I know its not hard to ID and its not security I’m worried about, I just simply don’t think I need to prove anything to the credit card company so in that regards you will NEVER see another pic posted from me again. Now to many many people, me choosing not post pics anymore is a great thing cause you ladies deserve better than me . I have lost ALL confidence in myself and I don’t see me EVER getting it back again thanks to this site and my experiences on it. I am a fat out of shape person and I really feel I don’t belong posting on this site anymore. I mean who wants to see a fat out of shape guy like me? Nobody does so why even attempt to ID? The way I look at it is there is PLENTY of other guys that are eye candy that the women can look at that are a TON better than me on this site and I simply can’t compete with these guys cause for health reasons I will NEVER be that perfect in shape guy body that woman want and enjoy so much to see. Ladies.. you deserve better pics than mine. I have learned over the years the guy pics that get all the comment and votes are the ones that are built well and in good shape. I have gone on status before and said hi to a woman and she would ignore me cause my gallery is not that great and then a guy comments on her status and he says hi and she acknowledges that guy cause he is in great shape and has a great gallery. The women come to this site for the eye candy Not to look at us fat out of shape guys weather we have a nice personality or not. This is just a realization and an observation over the years that I have experienced being on this site. So to all the ladies that have seen my pics that I HAD posted in the past I sincerely apologize that you have witnessed my hideous fat out shape body and can’t begin to tell you how sorry I truly am.

Now have there been some positive experiences on this site? Yes I have made some truly great friends on this site and the friendships I have made on this site are the SOLE reason I choose to stick around. A lot of friends I don’t talk to much but we still communicate once in a while to make sure we are okay and that is okay cause I know life can be busy for many people. There are a couple of other friends from here that I am still very close with and communicate almost on the daily with. I will NEVER forget the people I have met in real life here and will forever be grateful for the friendships I have created on here. How long will I continue to stick around? That I am not sure but I will let the right people know if I decide to leave to good. This is all just MY opinion about my experience on this site and how I feel now with 10 years under my belt here.

Thank you for taking the time out to read my reflection and how I feel.

Peace and LOVE

Shy

Why are pics now when I open them they are now automatically BIG and I can't vote on them? Id like to vote on my friends pics and its not letting me view them as such that I can vote HOT! any ideas why and how I can fix this?

Looked at the Front page today ( In the guy section) and just as I am right, Its ALL perfect body and fit guys on the front page for popular guy pics. I hate being right but if Im right Im right, All women just want to look at is Fit guys with perfect bodies NOT us fat ugly ones, I rest my case

Shy the ugly fat guy

Happy Birthday to me!!! It's okay I already know I'm a fat piece of shit and will just keep myself out of the spotlight as much as possible so to me it will just be another day.. I just want cake... ha ha.

Shy

2022 is in the books as a fat ugly loser. 2023 will be no different.

Thanks all you NN guys for posting and making me look like the fat piece of shit I am today. Keep posting!

Shy “the nobody” Guy

I wish you all a very Merry Christmas!!

First of all I want to wish all the Merican's here a Happy Thanksgiving!!

As we get in to Thanksgiving week I am Thankful for 2 things this Thanksgiving.

First thing is I want to Thank NN for putting in the ID in order to post pics. It gives me a GREAT excuse not to post pics. Its not that I can't do it but it makes my decision not to post A LOT easier as it takes effort to ID and my pics simply aren't worth that effort. It really prevents me from handing out eye bleach for all and also prevents ladies from throwing up looking at them.

Second thing I am thankful for is all the guys here that do post. Thank you to all the guys here that post cause it really makes it a A LOT easier on the eyes for all the ladies here, gives the ladies here something to look at and all these guys do a GREAT job at making me look like a huge piece of shit that I am and I simply can't compete so again thank you ALL guys.

Thank you

Shy

Not a chance in hell am I doing this ID verify thing just so I can upload a pic of my UGLY self for people to see so they can rub eye bleach on their eyes.
It just AIN'T happening. I'll only be in status from now on so that's that. I get it's not NN's fault but cause of the reason above I don't feel the need to put in the effort.

later gators

Shy

icicle found on the side of my house ha ha

Today is been an emotional day for me. For those that don't know todays marks the 3 year of the passing on my mom who fought and LONG HARD battle with cancer.
I'm spending a lot of today thinking about her and about how she would react to this crazy year and how i will never know or find out. I love and miss my mom so much and it never gets easier, you just learn to to deal with this day to day. Hoping she is watching me from above. Love and miss you mom

Also I wanna thank each and every person that welcomed me back here to NN in status. It was great to see some familiar faces still here and that still remember me and I am humbled by the response I got so thank you again.

Take care all

Shy