This is my short follow up video to my last video. Here is my way to make positive changes in your life.

I get asked this question all the time so I decided to make a video response to it. Here it is.... Hope its worth 10 mins of your life. -Ty

Last night I slept with my first black girl ever, and she spoke Spanish! I realise in reality she is no different than any other girls but, I have been wanting to do that my whole life and now I finally did it! She was really great.

Considering that I just got out of a relationship I have been honest with her and let her know that I am not looking to date again so soon. She said it was fine....

We shall see how long this can last before she gets attached. But, for now things are mmmmm sexyyyy! At least I have been honest with her and told her I am not looking for a relationship, so you can't say I am being dishonest.

Every single one of you who read my blog here should go to [url]http://www.travelingwithtyler.com[/url] because I have my first real legit published article! I am International now haha.

Go lookie! and thanks

My relationship lasted exactly a month. You know I have had some many failed relationships I can honestly say part of the problem has to be with me. I mean how can one human being have such horrible luck? I have had only one normal functional healthy serious relationship in my life. It didn't work out because of our distance from each other (She was in Canada) but we are still friends.

This time though it really was not my fault! My girlfriend told me she had family problems and to give her time and space. So I did as she asked. Then she broke up with me for not being supportive enough?! I mean wtf? I did really like her.

Eh... its ok. This is Colombia and I am a white guy living here there is nor shortage of girls lol. In fact, just today I met another girl who offered to give me a tour of Bogota and we had a great time together. So..... I am not rushing into another relationship for sure! But, we will see how it goes.

Since I waited so long for my now ex to have sex with me and she never did, I need to get laid! Which is why on Sunday a "friend" is coming over lol. It should be fun!

I am really mystified at the failure of this relationship though. I was even willing to talk things out with her and try and repair this relationship but she has refused to be mature and even discuss anything

Sometimes I think the universe hates me The girlfriend and I have been dating for just over a month, not that long really. But as I mentioned before I really like her and wanted to do things a little differently relationship wise with her.

Well obviously we are still getting to know each other, we havent even slept together yet. Nor have we had the "exs" conversation yet. I figured she had a past just as I do but we havent discussed it yet.

Well a good friend of mine here, his girlfriend is a friend to my girlfriend. So obviously my girlfriend tells her things. Apparently my girlfriend has been telling her she wants to break up with me.

I found this out from my friend's girlfriend. My girlfriend apparently dated a guy for 7 years before dating me. Now he wants her back. So she is wanting to dump me for him.

Only problem is she isnt telling me! My girlfriend writes me on facebook all lovey dovey and yet we havent seen each other in a week.

She cant avoid me forever. She can ignore me but eventually she is going to have to see me. If she wants to break up with me she should just do it, not hide from me and lie to me, tell me everything is fine while telling everyone else she wants to dump me.

I HATE childish drama and now I am stuck in the middle of it.

I really liked her too, I was happy. I thought this one was gonna be different but as usual I have the worst luck in the world. for all I know, she isnt sleeping me with because she is already fucking her ex.

FML.

For my (small) but dedicated fan base I think I owe yall an explanation as to why I hid my pictures. I have been on NN since I was 19 or 20 years old. For over 7 years now it has been a big part of my life. It has given me alot of joy and good things (and some frustrations too lol)

But since I have been dating my new girlfriend I have just been tiring of NN. I have some great friends here that I care for dearly but, considering that the girlfriend and I haven't even slept together yet I get the feeling she won't be cool with NN.

I don't want it to cause any issues so I am making this decision on my own. I am not leaving yet but starting to slow down on here. If you know me, you can always hit me up on facebook.

I am just starting to feel that this NN part of my life is winding down. If I have to leave totally I will. But, hopefully yall will be stuck with me for a while longer lol.

P.S. I am not one of those drama queens and I am making this decision for me AND for my relationship. I am just not enjoying NN as much as I used too. Once I decide to leave that will be it.

Yall take care,Tyler

So, I just wanted to give yall a little update. Things are going great my new girlfriend. This is totally different for me. I am actually legitimately happy with my life right now. I have a great job, a good place to live and a beautiful girlfriend who makes me happy. I have no "itchy feet" like usual.

You know its been almost a month together for us and we havent slept together even once yet. Of course I want too but I can tell she doesnt want to rush it so I dont push it.

I have no idea what the future holds for us but for the first time in many years I am really happy in a relationship and I want something more than just "casual".

So, here is the run down... I moved to Bogota Colombia to teach English and I got a job right away via my friend. It was so nice being able to "walk into a job" so to speak. I am a private tutor so all I do is teach rich kids and VP's of companies English. It is easy, I have great clients, the pay is great and it is a world away from teaching 30 screaming kids in Thailand.

Not only that but, my Spanish is progressing really quickly because I live with 3 roommates who only speak Spanish haha. Now for my big news...

I am dating. Actually really honestly dating a girl. We actually met my very first day in Colombia so after only 3 weeks here I am a taken man. She is beautiful,Colombian,she speaks some English and is helping me with my Spanish (Lessons are fun hehe) and she can cook!

I feel like the luckiest man alive right now. Want to know something else crazy? I like this girl so much that for the first time in a long long time, I dont want to fuck this up. I dont want anything "casual" nor do I feel the need to leave or travel or break up with her for any reason. I am not getting itchy feet.

I am just happy. I am allowing myself to be happy with her. She is great. I really honestly want this to work. I am willing to do what it takes to make it work. She is 22 and a biology major.

Did I mention she was smoking fucking hot? You know what else? We havent fucked. Not even once yet. I like her so much that im not pushing it and we are waiting... but I hope its soon lol.

I have already met her family (was there for Mother's Day) which was a shock to me but, in Colombia meeting the family right away is not a big deal apparently. They are all cool as shit.

I havent told her about NN yet considering we havent even slept together yet. I am not sure what I will do yet. anyway thats me over and out.

I knew eventually my luck had to change for the better and it did!

This is for you Peachy