I'm a nerdy, highly-sexual, kinky woman who has a lot of self-esteem issues. Trying to work on all that. I'm sorry if I can't message you back immediately or miss any of them! I didn't expect to be so popular and I don't have a premium membership, so I can't always answer everyone. :( But I love seeing the comments you guys leave! It definitely helps me along, so thank you! Very recently out of an eight year relationship with heartbreak.