honeyme's blog post - It's all a question of respect.

So, last weekend I appeared to offend several NN'ers by posting a status about why I answer so few messages. I rapidly deleted it and thus the resulting comments as it had quickly turned into a bit of a free for all, but left me with a lot of questions for myself about why exactly am I here and what do I want to get from all this.
What seemed to cause the most debate amongst the masses when I posted my status was why am I asking for intelligent messages when there's so little on my profile. Fair comment I suppose. But to me, if you're taking me for what you see is what you get from my profile, then you're missing an awful lot. Is it big headed of me to think of myself as the sum of the parts of everything you see? Yes, there's the obvious in the photos and there's little on the profile, intentionally so. For those of you that look (and I'm glad that a core proportion do!) if you read my captions, find my blog and see the other ways I contribute to the site here and there, it doesn't take much to realise that there's more to me than just the face. Or more specifically, more than just the boobs. I don't think it's wrong that I chose to spend my time here with the minority of people that understand that rather than those who don't.
That said, I don't want to sound as if I am missing the point of a site like this. It's an amateur nude site so obviously the focus is nakedness and sexual discussion. I'm far from innocent and I love being seriously dirty, in text as much as anything else. Nothing turns me on more than a well thought out comment or message. That brings me to my next point.. What is it in my brain that makes one message horny as fuck and the next an instant turn off? Part of it for me at least, is definitely subtle intelligence and the like. (Again, sorry if this sounds big headed!) Having gone on my little binge photo-athon of the last 2 days I've had more than my usual share of messages to ponder. And without giving away identities, there are a couple I'd like to share.
I got this message: 'would you take my hard cock in there ?'
And then I got this one: 'The thought of your wet lips wrapped tightly around my cock while your stomach rests on mine and your lovely tits smother my face is enough to tip me over the edge.'
Am I the only one that can spot the difference between the two? See, it's not the sex talk I object to. It's the lack of thought, the irritating assumption that just because I'm getting naked on a 'porn' site I must want to sleep with every man that asks and the minimal effort in asking that irritates me.
Yes, the first message was instantly deleted, the second got a worthy reply for turning me on.
I've come to the conclusion that I can tell which men treat women as ladies in real life here and which perhaps don't. I adore those of you that take time out of your day to say Thank You. Men which mention stunning curves, beautiful breasts and tell me I'm desirable.. those are the ones that matter to me.
Yes, I'm a girl with big tits putting herself out there on the internet. But I deserve some respect and adoration. If asking for that makes me rude in your book, then the loss is very much yours.