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kittykats1's blog post - Monday. Meh.

Monday, January 7, 2008, 5:21:58 PM
I "have a case of the Mondays..."

Feeling kind of down and don't know what to do. Someone I love more than I love myself is hurting so bad inside and I don't know what to do. I don't know what to say. I feel powerless and useless. I know that no matter what I say to him it is all just words and noises and none of it will make him feel any better. Powers beyond our control are calling the shots. So what to do? Say things that he doesn't want to hear? Like 'it will all get better, things happen for a reason, etc etc?' What a bunch of tripe. I know deep down that eases nothing. Do I just sit there and say nothing then? I don't know what to do. What I do know for a fact is that there is nothing I CAN do to help him, and that really sucks.

Puurrs to all,

Currently listening to: Morphine "Buena"

Comments

Others Have Said: 
7-Jan-08 17:28:30
Sometimes a friendly, supportive silence can help too. If he knows your care and are there for him....that is what matters most.
TresXXX
7-Jan-08 17:42:57
You don't have to fix it Kitty. Friends just need each other. Just be a friend :) Good luck...
Anya32
7-Jan-08 18:11:23
Just be there. Cuddles help too. Hugs sweetie xxxxxx
kassie...
7-Jan-08 18:45:40
just be there hun you sound like a true friend xxxx
8-Jan-08 0:17:56
Being there for him, listening and then when you know it is time to help him push on...you will need to be strong and tell him whats what. Someone kicked my ass a while back....and it was me....So I listened...lol

Just be there Kat..xox