kittykats1's blog post - Call me Goldilocks

Remember the story of Goldilocks and the 3 bears? How when she tried the bear's beds, one was too hard, one too soft and one just right? I am feeling like her right now.

I think we need a new bed. I don't really WANT a new bed, but it just isn't as good as it could be. I love my bed, it is so soft and comfy. You feel like you sink into it and it just cradles you. It is a wonderful deep & cushy pillow top bed. Sadly, what makes it such a fab bed to sleep in, makes it a shite bed to fuck in. We seem to have most of our sex not in our bedroom but in our office. There is a daybed that we use as a couch in there, and it has a very nice firm mattress on it. It is the perfect fuck bed. I just can't sleep on it, it is way too hard for me. Like I said I don't want to give up my cushy bed, but I think we need to find a compromise somehow. I find it takes a lot longer for me to cum in the doggy position when we are having sex on our bed vs. the daybed. I think the mattress is so soft, it gets us in weird angles where certain areas are not stimulated as much or stimulated differently. Hubby loves us to finish off in doggy, so that is how we end up most times. Last night I swear he must have fucked me for 20 minutes until I came, when it would normally take a lot less if we were on the other bed. I had already had a big messy (left a puddle on the bed) orgasm prior to that, so I was primed for another, but my knees seemed to keep sinking into the bed and the harder and more forcefully he thrust into me, the more my position changed. I eventually got there but it took a while - mind you, the getting there was fabulous but it was so frustrating to be SO close for SO long, I thought I was going to go nuts from frustration. When I did finally cum it hit me like a ton of bricks. My whole body felt stretched and sore. All of my muscles must have been tensed for so long.

I am just so torn. I sleep so good in the bed we have, but it is such a drag to have to stuff pillows under my ass or tummy to maintain good positions or angles for screwing. Between my hubby and I, we have accumulated 7 pillows of varying size and firmness on our bed. It looks like a pillow factory. I just don't know what to do about this situation...I am a very indecisive little Goldilocks right now...

Puurrs to all,

Currently listening to: Portishead "Sour Times"