kittykats1's blog post - Date night :)

My husband and I have been together for 12 years, and we will be be celebrating our 10th wedding annniversary this August. We have an 8 year old child, so it is very rare that we have much time to just spend 'alone'. We try and be creative and sneak in little bits of fun here and there, but the days of lolling about naked and spending all day in bed are long gone - well, unless we send our kid to stay with my folks or in-laws for the day.

We had arranged for our son to go to my parent's for the day on and overnight after his little league game Saturday morning. We went, cheered his team on (they won) and handed him over to my parents. It was kind of an odd feeling, as wherever we go, our son is most always with us so it is a foreign feeling to have all of this adult only time on our hands. You kind of look at your spouse and go "so what do we do now???" First we went to the jeweler as my wedding rings needed fixing. They are just too loose, so I had stopped wearing them in fear of losing them. If I shook my hand they would just fly right off. Left them with the jeweler for re-sizing and ogled all the pretty, shiny bling in the shop and discussed where to go from there. Lunch was the next logical step, so I suggested a place that my girfriend Sheryl and I went to before and that was really good. Hubby had never eaten there so off we went.

After a vey tasty lunch, we did a little shopping. Hubby got some new shirts and at I got some really cute, really short cargo shorts. Damn, now I really need some sun on my legs! I hadn't realized I was so damn pale till then lol. We went home and farted around and since we were sans child I just wandered around the house naked. Which of course led to some groping, which led to some sucking and licking, which led to some sex. Which led to me being on my knees, being fucked silly. The only problem was I was teetering on the edge of the bed, and the more he thrust into me, the closer I got to the edge! I could just imagine the outcome - fucked OFF of the bed. Falling face first right onto the floor. With my luck I would have ended up in the hospital with a broken nose or something trying to explain to a snickering doctor exactly how it happened. Thankfully that didn't come to pass, as hubby finshed up before I ended up overboard. We chilled for a bit, relaxing and talking and then I got to take an afternoon nap. It is a rare and delicious luxury and it felt so lovely to just drift off after making love and knowing I don't have to do a damn thing but enjoy how my body was feeling.

I woke up a couple hours later and took a shower. We were invited to a party so we decided to go to that for a while and then go to a strip club after that. I had never been to a strip club, ever, so I was pretty excited. We went to the party and hung out for a while and I was having a good time, but hubby was ready to go and look at some nekkid chicks lol. The club was pretty nice, pretty classy for what I imagined a strip joint to be. There were surprisingly quite a few other wives/GF's there, as well as several lesbian couples. We found some good seats and settled down to watch the 'entertainment.' We watched several dances and compared the girls and discovered that we both liked the same girls. Hubby thought it was hilarious yet comforting to know that his wife had the same taste in women that he did lol. I enjoyed myself a lot, and got a lot of attention from the girls as they danced, much to my husband's surprise. It was a blast and I can't wait till we go back again. There is one particular girl that I would really love to get a private dance from, so maybe in a couple weeks we will check the place out again. I felt totally comfortable at that club, it had a really good vibe. It was a no booze place so there werent any drunken assholes to contend with. I did have an interesting trip to the ladies room, as I needed to pee and the 3 stalls were occupied. The end stall I noticed however had 2 sets of legs in it yet only 3 feet showing and some very interesting noises coming from it. One of the lesbian couples were in the stall having a bit of a 'munch' it appeared, as while I was peeing I could hear lots of heavy breathing and slurping noises coming from the stall next to mine. A little distracting, lol. Not a place I would want for a fuck, but hey if they didn't mind getting it on in a public toilet, more power to them. I left and told hubby and he was pretty blown away. 2 songs later they come out looking a bit flushed and sat down to watch some more dances. We watched a few more as well and called it a night. We both had a great time. As far as 'date nights' go, this is one of the best we have had in a long while.


Puurrs to all,

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