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mystigo_dragon's blog post - Bobby's back home.

Sunday, January 25, 2009, 11:49:57 PM
Pixie and I went up to Sace-Western Reserve University for my brother's memorial service.

It was a good day, seeing family and listening to his friends and colleagues tell stories about my brother the professor, ham radion operator and sailboat skipper!

It was especially fantastic to go out to dinner with one of my two nephews who had a difficult relationship with his dad. Since his dad's death on December 9th, my man has had emotional
baggage piled up within.

Over dinner and a nice bottle of Chardannay, Pixie and his wife excused himself and I let him vent! It was fierce but I'm happy to say that after some raised voices and a couple of tears, he is whole!

I LISTENED, then allowed him some insight into the decade that my brother and I spent estranged after the death of our mother! He was able to extrapolate something from our discussions that eased his troubled heart and he was able to embrace his older sibling again.

I have brought some of my brother's cremins "home" to Maryland and will place them in a crypt in the memorial park where the great majority of our family rests!

A GREAT TRIP!!!
~ ~ ~ ~ ~ ~ ~ ~ ~ ~

Final thought: "Clevelanders drive worst than Virginians - SHEESH!!! sad

Dragon

Comments

Others Have Said: 
25-Jan-09 23:50:47
Typing too fast! CASE-WESTERN RESERVE, not Sace! :-0
By-the-Sea
26-Jan-09 1:02:41
Your pain is my pain Marine
26-Jan-09 1:34:15
How is that possible? Virginians drive pretty badly.

And I'm glad your trip was cathartic for you. Welcome back.
nickey69
26-Jan-09 1:56:49
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imalilhothead
26-Jan-09 2:23:41
welcome back hon xxxxxxxxxx...nice that you could help your nephew thru that..he's got a great uncle!!
26-Jan-09 4:42:53
glad your back safe and sound.xxxx
peachypus
26-Jan-09 6:53:38
Glad you could be a good uncle and helped him through it xxxxx