We've moved back to the midwest from the west coast after several years. The west coast was not the place we wanted to raise our family. We've been here before since 2012 as quietmicpl & quietmicplv2, probably should change back. Still a very happily married couple. We don't make separate profiles. We'll try our best to make it clear who's talking. In status it will most definitely be my husband most of the time. We are old souls that have a lot of love to share & are open to what can follow between like minded adults. We believe love & attraction have no gender when there is a connection, but are very respectful with boundaries. We are a tall, BBW/BHM couple, take pride in our appearance & are confident in who we are. We are active and thrive in nature. We are more than what's between our legs or a fetish and extend that same courtesy to our "friends." We are soul mates, best friends with an incredible marriage. This is not something we need to do to save our marriage or fill a void.