the weather is great--plants are blooming and looking beautiful. On a different note, the wife had a visit from one of her lovers from a while ago. haven't connected with him for a few years due to scheduling conflicts. they got to spend a couple of very heated sexy hours together. I had to keep ours pup busy so I couldn't be in with them but I could hear the moans and other sounds of pleasure . she was still smiling the next day . been a while since she got fucked like that and I want to try to convince her she needs that at least once a week or so.

one thing I have found about getting older that I am not crazy about is that my body does not adapt to weather as well. Used to be that 50 degree weather was ok, but now it requires at least a flannel shirt, if not a light weight hoodie. lol. I am not anemic, have blood work done regurally because of heart and cholesterol and the results are fine. just part of aging. ah well, if that is my biggest complaint then things are really fine.

always rambling lol. today is Friday April 21 and the wife left for her mom's last night. family wedding on Saturday and not something I wanted to go to.. plus we have a 5 month old pup that cannot be left alone and doesn''t travel well. the best excuse====although my wife is fully aware of her family and their weirdness. they live about 5 hours from us. our sex life still sucks in that with whatever is going on we are lucky to fuck once a week. not asking for every day but 2 - 3 times a week would be so much better. I am insecure enough that I need the attention and reassurance that comes with the total act of completion. she will be home sunday eve sometime. so we shall go from there.

been a while since I've entered on here. finally maybe we are going to get some stability in the weather ---- got so much yardwork to try to get done. we did get a puppy. border collie = female. she was 5 weeks when we got her and she is now going on 5 months. she's a love====high energy, a little crazy and demands a lot of attention. keeps this old guy busy. getting a bit of a cardio workout with her. so that's a good thing. lol. hopefully get my stamina up for sex. that has been a touch and go situation. seems lkke the hours go so fast that lovemaking has been too sporadic. trying like hell to make time --- well, more time --- but it ain't easy. and the dog doesn't help. when our kids were little it was easier lol. but we are constantly working on it. I'm going on 79 and I am not ready to give up sex yet. don't see that happening any time soon.

but we try----wife has a couple of guys she sees once a week or so and that actually helps. one comes over satudays and spends the night. usually we get to share her and she loves that. it is so erotic and satisfying to see her and listen to her.

wife is going to visit her mom this weekend. leaving thursday night ===home late saturday or early sunday. we just had our 42 anniversary. doesn;t seem like that many years. she's still my love, sexy, and so grand to be with.

it is saturday and the wife's weekend lover is headed over for the evening and night.they usually get started around 10 and go for a good hour or so before we all head to sleep. they both work tomorrow but they will be happy and de-stressed.

the diagnosis is kidney stones and she may need surgery to remove them. a very unexpected cost!! ah well we will do what we need.she's healthy otherwise and functioning well

had to take one of our cats to the vet this morning. waiting to hear the diagnosis. she's about 9 yo. my cuddler.

monday we had a rare day off together. wife works two jobs -one full time the other weekends so she literally works all 7 days. its a treat when she has a day off. we went to lunch, walked along the lakeshore, drove a bit looking for a certain park we couldn't find. then some work aroung the house and clean up a bit at the cemetary. I wanted to play--to tie her up a litlle and blindfold her. but it got late and the tiredness set in. ah well. she felt so good in my arms