For those of you that don't know us or just know us in passing I thought I'd put a bit about who TexasCouple is for a little while. I am a proud 9th generation Texan and love my home but have had the chance to travel the America's southern states and countries in my half of the world. Guess no matter where you are from or where you've been there is just something about home.
Neither of us were looking for much of anything when we talked the first time, one of my people that had been talking to one of her people on the old msn.irc days put us both into a chat room and it just went from there. She was a meanie all of the time we talked lol. We were both nerds in our own little way's, I was learning a bit about scripting and she was taking advantage of all the fun toys her friend had made her. She just loved making my computer blue screen, the blue screen of death she dubbed it haha.
It was a fun little chat buddy for a long time but after almost a year we had really gotten to know each other pretty damn well. There were phone calls that got to be naughty at times, something new to both of us that we got to enjoy together. We were both dealing with the constant battle of surviving abusive relationships that were tied with the most important and loved thing either of us had ever known. Every day we looked forward to having our chat buddy, a bright part of the day we could look forward to.
Finally that epiphany finally struck, whats the harm in checking this out for real? If any of you have rode a grey hound I'm sure you can relate at this point, that day and a half bus ride finally landed in ATL 5 days later!!! It was cold and rainy, she was there with the one we called "phalopogus" dressed in a bright yellow wind breaker and my heart soared. To this day I get flutters when I see her in yellow again.
Now it's important to know that I had never seen a photo of her!!! I was in love with a mind and person and the beauty that housed this great woman had me even more smitten that I was already. For the longest time she would tell me she was a 450lb. black lady with hot pink hair lmao! Come to find out this chick here was a fibber.
So fast forward, abusive drama phalopogus was stood up too and found lacking. Now I mentioned that back home I was in a abusive relationship as well but I'm by no means a push over or weak, but I am a gentleman and in my case chose to only protect myself. Unluckily for this douche tho a gentleman takes care of a fella like this a lot different that he handles a lady.
After a few years we move back to my home, we've been married and are happy for the first time in our lives. We joined up here for the first time in 04, it was originally just me looking to be a perv haha but it didn't take long for us to have a couple terrible blurry pics posted. It shocked us the response we get, no matter how many times I told her that she was beautiful and sexy or she told me I was hot and sexy neither one of us believed it was true... just blind love! Withing 6 months we had created a account togeter got a lifetime premium membership and took the confidence we got from all of the amazing ppl here into the world with us. We actually felt attractive to ourselves to go out and chase our fantasies, both having always been interested in swinging.
If you've ever looked through our pics we have lots of pics and vids of ourselves posted but, since NN gave us the courage to follow our fantasy we try our best to get pics to share those swinging good times with all of you here. Amazingly enough it seems ya'll enjoyed them too! Several of our group photos have had an insane 10,000+ views!!!
We both come from less than fortunate poor backgrounds and that was still the case when we met. We worked hard raising our family, working, continuing our educations. We stood proud moving from the ghetto's into the success of middle class. A decent neighbor hood, house with a lovely yard, in ground pool, Jacuzzi, two car garage that was the chill spot for everyone. We had made some little dreams come true together and it was worth one damn big smile.
Hard times came a few years later and even though we are still in the struggle from them I don't believe I could ask for it to have been any different. Almost two years ago now the Misses began getting severely disabling migraine headaches. Within a couple of weeks of non stop pain in her head we got the news that it was a blood blister brain aneurysm and not operational. With symptoms as severe as they were they didn't expect much time before something caused it to rupture.
We took a year, the Misses doesn't have a lot of recollection of everything that transpired between the blinding pain and fog of many, many, many heavy meds. A doctor that finally saw a radical solution, a slim chance to survive... less than 20% that she would even make it from the table and if she made it that far the odds didn't get any better.
I can't say that it worked as planned by any means, the surgery went south and the Dr. put a plan B into action that was conceived on the fly while she was under and dying. With a 2 inch square hole cut into her skull and her scalp removed from half of her cap the Dr. made a four inch incision into her throat.
The recovery was a miracle that I am thankful for every day. It stayed very scary for many months but she was getting better every day, becoming the woman that I had come to cherish little by little. Within a year of the surgery she was her normal, strong, healthy self again. A few things that she will easily live with still affect her but it amaze's me every time I see her after coming so close to loosing her.
Although we had good medical coverage, which did pay a majority of the MASSIVE medical bills incurred during the surgery even our fraction was a bank breaker for us. Unfortunately by the time we got to the surgery part we had already begged, borrowed, and stole just to pay the insane number of Dr.s that wanted their co-pay and the co-pay of the expensive test's that each of the 16 doctors we meet with and all up front.
WTH the point of paying a chunk of each paycheck to medical insurance that leaves you in the throes of the worst financial times you've ever experienced baffles me. I've let go of the anger I harbored for a long time, though we still live in the ghetto where we raise a family surrounded by drugs, gangs, violence, robbery, murder, and days that there is no food to eat. It has been the hardest anger to remove myself from, but in all hard times there is always a silver lining.
In all of the pain that we've endured as a family, its made us stronger than ever before. From the youngest member of our little family on up we all know how close we came to losing our ever important Ma Bear. No matter if it was a present-less Christmas where violence outside our home runs dangerously rampant or the long nights of hunger unsure of where we will find food for the kids.
The light that shines on our family in all of the pain is the one thing we all know will keep us strong and together. Every day we each and every one wrap our arms around the amazing woman that makes us who we are and the woes of the struggle we endure melt away leaving a feeling of warmth and love. No matter what life brings us together it will be a life of happiness.
At the end of it all we can see our dreams again, and unlike the beginning of our amazing journey together we both know that we are strong enough to accomplish them once again.
Thank you all for reading this if you managed to get through it all lol -.- ZzZzzZz
I don't keep blogs as personal as this up for long but sometimes it helps to get your thoughts out of your brain. Thanks again for taking your time to listen to my babble =)
Mr. TC
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