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Blog Title: rly
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2-May-23 19:44:38
Unfucking believable!
3-May-23 0:33:19
Amen
3-May-23 13:05:17
[...] The biggest mistake we ever made with trolls was making the question of abuse about how to placate and fix them instead of how to empower the people they hurt or manage your own well-being in the face of them. Like so many abused people, we thought the solutions involved walking on eggshells and not provoking them back. But instead, we must acknowledge “that we are what we pretend to be, so we must be careful about who we pretend to be.” And that means acknowledging the awful, terrifying power of jokes and the immunity we seek in “not being serious.” This is exactly why people troll in the first place. Because deep down, they know it’s serious, and that’s exactly why it makes them feel powerful.

This brings us to the only thing I know for sure in all this: often, the online abusers win because the game is set up for them to win the moment they decide to play. They have the power to hurt, deeply and profoundly. They always have. And don’t worry, they’ll discover where this game takes them with time. But when it comes to how we respond to them, our tactics can and will vary, and they may involve anger, humor, love, tolerance, blocking, or maybe even some productive discussion. But ultimately, if we care about abuse, we cannot care most about whether we have comforted, converted, or even fed them.
We have to care more about the people they hurt.

By Film Crit Hulk - TheVerge.com"

I choose to hug and kiss MissAshlee :)
4-May-23 7:02:20
Ridiculous!
6-May-23 22:24:26
If it's the same troll I'm thinking of, I'm glad I blocked the prick months ago. Status has been a much happier place since then.