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Blog Title:	Understanding Others

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naughty_but_innocent	1-Aug-15 4:31:20 big hugs babe I'm here anytime you need to talk and I think you know that! xoxox

juicy	1-Aug-15 4:32:13 You aren't the first nor the only one to deal with depression, anxiety and many other issues here. Do not take it as being aimed at you. Instead look at is something the person/ppl involved in that drama have their own issues.

Daffodil888	1-Aug-15 4:33:17 I totally agree and to further that point some of us are such perfectionists trying to please everyone all the time, always putting others first, that this becomes a place for us to feel good and show our uninhibited parts. To release. So yes we want attention! It can lift our spirits more than you know. Thanks for being there for me too. :)

juicy	1-Aug-15 4:35:03 translate that... late and typing has tanked

tight_wet_lips	1-Aug-15 4:43:07 If you take what others write in status when they are dealing with something we don't know about, it can drive you nuts. Let what others get off their chest as a sign that they in turn would like some form of attention for their woes. This doesn't include cryptic messages aimed at getting under someones skin, that is totally different. That is called baiting and it is a big no no in status or anywhere on NN. The status you are referring to just happened to be a person who had some thing happen to them As Ju points out, do not take it as being aimed at you. hugs

tight_wet_lips	1-Aug-15 4:43:11 If you take what others write in status when they are dealing with something we don't know about, it can drive you nuts. Let what others get off their chest as a sign that they in turn would like some form of attention for their woes. This doesn't include cryptic messages aimed at getting under someones skin, that is totally different. That is called baiting and it is a big no no in status or anywhere on NN. The status you are referring to just happened to be a person who had some thing happen to them As Ju points out, do not take it as being aimed at you. hugs

MidnightWriter	1-Aug-15 4:56:57 I didn't take it as being aimed at me at all surprisingly...it was just something that happened to make me think...and I felt compelled to share those thoughts. It was as simple as that...and ty all for reading and commenting :) I Love You Guys!!!

MidnightWriter	1-Aug-15 4:59:36 I was merely giving another perspective, so to speak...

MidnightWriter	1-Aug-15 5:06:01 I was merely giving another perspective, so to speak...

OldTroubador	1-Aug-15 7:47:01 I know where you are coming from Boots. Oh yeah. Unfortunately, the nature of my job means that, if I don't move every day, I don't get paid. This place gives me a place to hide, talk out what is going on in my head - without judgement. It also lets me help others, when I can. Yeah, some folks here ARE attention whores. But others seriously need the attention of friends with different perspectives, to help them along. Also, a lot of folks here feel isolated by living where they do - they feel like they are on the edge of the world. NN is a place they can come to so they feel like they are back in the center of things. This is a good place to be, whether happy or sad.

RoxanneS	1-Aug-15 15:15:20 Depression and anxiety suck. Sorry that you're dealing with them. I can understand how such a status could have triggered your blog post and I thank you for sharing your perspective. I'm always interested in how we use social media and this site, among others, to interact or reach out. Came across a post on Psychology Today that gives me pause: https://www.psychologytoday.com/blog/side-effects/201204/social-media-and-social-loneliness (probably won't hyperlink but you can cut and paste.) I'll be reading "The Flight from Conversation" next. BTW, don't apologize for upsetting anyone with your blog when it clearly isn't your intent. Your tone here is respectful and charitable. Keep taking care.

AdeleGingerRaine	7-Aug-15 18:28:51 I can tell you are a lovely man....comes through perfectly in your writing. ..sorry that you are going through all that you are going through...but I get you...most do. .and I don't think for a second that you typed this because you thought that status was aimed at you ..sounded like you were speaking in general...as said b4...you can always talk to me...I know sone of what you are going through. ..hugs xxoo