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Blog Title:	Sometimes I Question Why I'm Here

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Ho-Lee-Chit	20-Apr-21 14:43:12 I want you to know that, what Im going to tell you, I believe fully, whole heartedly. It will not be sugar coated. And you can take it for what its worth to YOU. Because, and since, that is the only person that it is important to...Or not. You will never be happy until you find your self worth. Only you can do this. You cant find it here or any other site or within any one elses opinion. So you see yourself lacking as compared to what you or others state is a "standard" of beauty/attractiveness. Most people, when they rate themselves will never rate themselves as a 10, no matter what anyone else may think. Almost everyone has a low opinion of themselves, they have self esteem issues/problems. Want to know something? Everyone on this planet is bipolar. Its just a matter of how much. The majority of people dont think they are "hot". The ones that do have their own issues. Which is wrong? There are times when a person may look in the mirror and say "Hey, I look good!" What they mean is that they look better than normal. Because we all have self esteem issues. Heres the deal: What youre looking for is superficial. Its shallow. "Beauty is in the eye of the beholder". We, each of us, will always be our worst critic. There have been times where I have looked in the mirror and wanted to punch it. There have been times where I have. I am not alone. There are as many types of beauty as there is types of love. Thousands of shades of grey in between black and white. Its up to you to choose what shade youre attracted the most. If that happens to be physical appearance, well, Im gonna be let down. Its the palest of grays. If that is all that you care about, I suggest a physical trainer and start saving your money for a plastic surgeon. What I DO hope is that you find your self worth. That you manage to find your beauty inside yourself. Ive looked at all the pics that youve ever posted and Ill tell you that Ive found attractiveness in it. But that doesnt really matter because you doubt anything anyone ever tells you thats positive. Its a defense mechanism. It may cause you to be abrasive with others. It may cause you to be secluded from others. It may be both, it may be a lot of other things. Until you find your own worth, you will not be happy with yourself. NO one is until they find worth in themselves. You are looking in the wrong places for what you need. That is, unless Ive misjudged you and youre a shallow narrow minded person only interested in the physical appearance, not caring about character, inner beauty, compassion, empathy, talent, a myriad of other qualities. I hope that you will look at yourself as a whole, break yourself into pieces that you like and dont like. Fix the parts of you that you dont like, if you can, and what you cant, become comfortable with. Its a part of you, embrace it. Own it. Those who dont care for it dont matter. There are however many people there are in this world and you dont think you can find a place to fit in? I dont think so. You already have ones here, at NN alone, that want to be a part of your world. Its you who have decided not to accept it. Why is up to you to figure out. I have not meant to offend or hurt you. My most fervent wish is that you find happiness. Everyone deserves that. You, me, whoever. But I believe that you have to find your self worth first to get on that path. Find all the beauty that is you, that is in every person and embrace it. Fix the parts of you that you dont like if you can and embrace the rest as much as the beauty that you find.