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How do you get over trust issues?

25-Feb-21 22:29

Need some help on this topic. If you have any ideas or thoughts please feel free to share with me.

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26-Feb-21 01:15

you are not saying anything about situation
but if its a person, i would considder (depending on situation)
Do i love this person?
Do i need this person in my life?
Do i want to forgive this person?

If you do, its a mindset, youve decided to move forward and you stick to it
this is my belief, that with me you get a second chance,
but there are no thirds

(this means no going back and say -well you did that back when )

someone said about Danes,
"youre to trusting
you trust people until they prove untrustworthy"
id say its pretty accurate

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marriedbi52

26-Feb-21 09:57

Only trust issues in our 49 year marriage has been her spending! I have long term goals for retirement & being debt free & traveling! She has short term "want's"...& sometimes their not cheap....

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trust

1-Jun-21 18:51

I guess my response would be communication. lots of talking. my wife and I have had some serious relationship issues and we took long walks talking or just sitting together talking through all of it. it seriously kept us together and at peace

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Work on Confidence over Trust

14-Jul-21 16:14

Work on your own confidence first. Try to learn about letting go of toxic jealously.

You’ll be more happy trusting than trying to make them earn trust under an unrealistic microscope. Trust issues push away and can cause the very thing you are afraid of to happen.

My 2 cents.

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15-Jul-21 12:15

Over the years I have met a few females with trust issues. I tried to reassure them, but in the end I realised it was them that had the problem and they could actually not trust themselves.

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RavingLunatic

16-Aug-21 23:02

how my marriage ended and certain events since. simply i dont really trust anybody anymore. not family, friends nor lovers, when it comes right down to the wire. everybody looks after their own ass. i spend a good portion of my life putting others first. what do i have to show for it all, the blood the tears the aching back. a apartment a mouse would call a shoe box and a cat (she's awesome). oh and the last thirty years of my life(should i be so lucky), to learn what most people learnt when they were twenty. trust lost is very rarely found. when love dies it is gone.

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