It has been documented that haptic communication . . nonverbal communication through touch is the most important communication . . it is vital for the growth and survival of a newborn . . . and likewise it is vital for the sustaining of life through all our ages . . . touch is the most intimate form of communication . . . we need it . . we need it to know we are loved and part of a community . . . large and small . . .we are not alone . . . so touch another . . . make him or her really feel that they are not alone . . . touch . . hug . . hold hands . . make love . . make wonderful memories . . touch with meaning . . . and care