Let me start off by stating that I am a married man, for the most part a happily married man except for one area. Being this blog is on this site I'm sure you can imagine which area of my marriage is lacking. My overactive libido and her under-active, almost non-existent libido has truly been a struggle. We are only married for a few years and I didn't expect this until we were much further along if ever. My urges are strong but I am faithful and have had no issue staying faithful by blowing off a little steam online when I get the chance. Enter the new girl at work. We hit it off right away and although I am married and she is in a long term relationship, I can feel a chemistry between us that I believe is mutually shared. We have spoken about hanging out outside of work and the thought of this is quite scary as the more contact I have with her the more I feel certain urges and desires to be with her intimately. I feel very guilty about this but at the same time I would not want to give up the connection and we have to work together all day anyway. I'm struggling with the whole situation. I can't tell anyone else about this so I'm hoping putting it on here has some therapeutic value or something like that. Oh well, back to work. :/

Let me start off by stating that I am a married man, for the most part a happily married man except for one area. Being this blog is on this site I'm sure you can imagine which area of my marriage is lacking. My overactive libido and her under-active, almost non-existent libido has truly been a struggle. We are only married for a few years and I didn't expect this until we were much further along if ever. My urges are strong but I am faithful and have had no issue staying faithful by blowing off a little steam online when I get the chance. Enter the new girl at work. We hit it off right away and although I am married and she is in a long term relationship, I can feel a chemistry between us that I believe is mutually shared. We have spoken about hanging out outside of work and the thought of this is quite scary as the more contact I have with her the more I feel certain urges and desires to be with her intimately. I feel very guilty about this but at the same time I would not want to give up the connection and we have to work together all day anyway. I'm struggling with the whole situation. I can't tell anyone else about this so I'm hoping putting it on here has some therapeutic value or something like that. Oh well, back to work. :/