hey, thought it was about time i updated this seeing as my life has taken (yet another) quite dramatic twist of late! just been through a horrible separation with my fiance of 5 years, now living with my partner (female) and feeling better all the time. i am still bi-sexual, so, guys, don't be entirely put off, though given recent events men aren't exactly top of my priorities list lol. don't be scared, get in touch! Ruth xxx