I love getting to know fun, thoughtful people. I like people who are open about their sexuality and willing to explore. I am a 51 year old married man who occasionally steps outside his marriage to share sensual times with others. I am a retired military officer, a gentleman most of the time, but a scoundrel at others. I am kind, sensual, easy going, and good looking (most of the women I know say I am handsome, but I don't see that when I look in the mirror). I especially enjoy giving oral pleasure to attractive women who are trimmed or shaved. You should know that I have had Herpes for almost 18 years and have not passed it on to other lovers during this time. I am respectful of boundaries. I am courtous and discreet.