In search of a big beautiful lover. Happily married family man, 45ish, 5'10" 180#s, nice build and considered hansom by many women (although I can't imagine why, I look like Bryan Adams and I think BA looks like a goof). My general look or persona? . . . Construction Management. My clothes are quality and clean but they are work clothes, I enjoy an intelligent conversation but I am a man (well trained monkey), I utilize my dental coverage and ocassionally make time for the barber's chair. I'm clean shaven but I'll admit sometimes the hair in my ears can sneak up on me. My wife and I have an "open relationship" (no really, you'll find our profile as michigan11) but I'll admit her end is much more "open" than mine. I was raised by my mother & 3 older sisters; I respect women, I was given no choice (don't expect too much, I'm still a trained monkey). I am FUKING LOCO about BIG women. I want to touch em and squeeze em and hold em and kiss em and more than anything else make them believe it when I tell them they are beautiful. (You'll never convince me that God made Eve 22yrs old with a firm belly and silicone tits, the man needed someone to HOLD!) My perfect woman would be stabily married, 38 -58yrs old, 5'5" 270lbs, with enough rebel inside her to kindle a nearly anonymous, superficial relationship on pure physical lust & harlequin romance but with maturity and kindness enough for that relationship to evolve into a casual friendship . . . w/ benefits. She would allow herself to be more sexually adventurous than she thought was possible but still enjoy the time just being held and pampered. She would make the time to be with me a random 6 - 12 times a year. 3 times in one month & 1 time in the following 3 months, however it shakes out, no pressure, no expectations, just an occasional conspiritory smile and a phone call. If this sounds anything like you, DO NOT, NOT respond to this ad because your nose is too big or your ass is too pimply or you're not pretty enough, if you have a sexy woman inside you, I would be honored to help find her, introduce myself and get to know her. Oh, and I'm a little long winded.