Someone asked me if having total strangers want me is a turn-on. Hell yes it's a turn-on. Everyone wants to feel like they are desirable. That's part of the addictive quality of doing this. It's not my 15 minutes of fame, but it could come back to haunt me at some point. Being in the lifestyle does not ingratiate you to the public (at least in America).

American's think about sex, a lot. American's talk about sex a lot. Our media is inundated with graphic, and suggestive images and words. But if you do something out of the ordinary, watch-out! Look what they did to the preacher in Colorado Springs. They wanted to crucify him (excuse the irony).

Until next time...Live out-loud!

If any of you are still around from the day, and you remember CandyJane, that was me. I've been gone for five years and now I'm back. Call me "addicted to sex", because I think it's true.

My best friend and F-Buddy, and I have have been looking for another couple. No one wants to hook up with us because were married, but not to each other. People say it's unethical unless everyone knows about it (my husband and his wife). I think it's unethical for a wife to withhold sex for years; I think it's unethical for my husband to get intoxicated every night. I think it is unethical for people to judge us just because we are married to the wrong people. I mean let's get real!

Okay, I'm done with my rant. The search goes on. If you are in the Cheyenne, or Denver area, and you are in the lifestyle and it doesn't sting your ethics give me a shout. We really only want another couple. Sorry guys. I'm bi-curious which requires another female, and he is bisexual which requires another male. So you do the math.

I've been reading some of the most popular blogs...why?