Well .... Not what you would expect with that title.
Went out of the town and stayed at a VERY nice hotel for 4 nights (100 year old, room service, couples massage etc...) figured there would be at least 2 or 3 nights of fun but NOPE! In the end, we had a quick fuck on the first morning and that was it. On the last night, I tried really hard to get things started, but she was more interested in watching Christmas With The Cranks than sex. Frustrating as HE!!.
I think my biggest frustration is that I made a real effort (not that I do not all the time) I shaved which she likes, I took her out to some amazing meals, basically did everything she wanted to do. She did not bother shaving which I could really care less about but it would have been nice. Every time I made an advance she found something else to keep her occupied and avoid sex. I realize that the first 2 nights she was concerned about noise and the neighboring rooms, but there was the mornings where we were always late to leave the rooms so others were gone and the last night the hotel was pretty much empty.

Well, The Ex has said that she wants to fuck at least once this week, so we will see how that goes.

The Wife and I are headed out this morning for a long weekend holiday at a historic hotel with natural hot baths and other luxuries. I am hoping for an active weekend sexually but not too sure. I am prepared for whatever she offers of course. Should be interesting. When we get back I will surely update here on how things went.

The Ex and I went to deliver 2 catering orders this morning and I figured we would drop them off and go our separate ways since we both have to work, but during the drive she said that she wanted to shower and have fun before we went to our jobs so .... We did. We showered, and then went to 'my space' where I sucked on her tits and ate her to an amazing orgasm. Unfortunately, I was nervous about time for both of us so we did not fuck which was frustrating for both of us but it was still fun. We are planning for a more complete repeat o this when we are not so tight for time.

Well it has been just over a month since The Wife and I last fucked despite trying and even suggesting on my part. Earlier this week, I was on FB Marketplace and saw a sexy lingerie nightie that I was going to buy for her, showed it to her and she said she had one almost exactly like it. I was like, well I have never seen it. She said she would wear it later. Went to bed and she was searing her usual bedtime shirt - said it was too cold. Next day, I worked late and when I got home while I was showering she did put it on, but covered it up with a blanket when I came out of the shower. When we went to bed, she wanted to 'snuggle' but obviously no more. Fast forward to last night and when we went to bed she was wearing her usual sleeping shirt so I figured nothing happening even though I had shaved in hopes. SURPRISE when she got in bed she actually started things going and immediately said 'I guess I have to remove this shirt' I was like, well if we are moving forward, then yes you do. Ended up with a decent (about 45 minute) fuck session with her sucking me, me eating her and then fucking her to at least one (but I think 2) orgasms. After she was still wanting to cum again so she got out her vibe and I played with her and sucked her tits while she came hard. This got me going again so I fucked her for a bit after that the only problem was as I was really getting into the second round (for me) she suddenly had to pee so that was the end of that. She went to pee, came back to bed and went to sleep. Well, maybe another try again tonight, I can hope can't I?

Well, after a long drought, The Ex and I finally managed a get together, The Wife went to a concert with a friend so I took The Ex out to get a bite to eat and then back to my place to shower and fuck. We tried playing around in the shower, but I hurt my leg a few weeks ago and it was not working so we went up to 'my' space and things went sort of as usual, I sucked on her tits for a while which gets her so wet, then went to eat her sweet pussy to her screaming orgasm and she pulled me up to fuck her, this time she was so excited that she insisted that I cum in her which was wonderful - probably the first time I have cum in her in over 10 years. She seemed to enjoy that as well and joked about it dripping out of her. It was a pretty good session with her and since there seems to be no intent on The Wife part to have any kind of sex, oh well.

Earlier in the day (or maybe the evening before) The Wife had commented that I should sit around naked, but I do not like doing that because we have leather couches and then she complained that I never stay awake when we go to bed. My response to that is that she goes to the bathroom and spends 15+ minutes and I get tired of waiting. Well, that evening, I was not really tired so made it a point to be awake when she came to bed. She obviously was feeling amorous and we began kissing and I went to play with her tits and feel her pussy. After a bit I moved for her to suck me and me her. I had been taking my herbal enhancers all week so I was harder than usual and when I went to fuck her she was WET, more so than usual, I fucked her for a bit, then felt myself going a bit softer so I went to suck her tits which always gets me harder, this happened a few times with her (I think) having small orgasms during each part but she was obviously on the edge of a major orgasm. Well after 3 or 4 of these short fucks with a few minutes of sucking on her tits she was sloppy wet, like I could hear the juices sort of sloshing around and I decided that I was ready to cum and for her to have one good big orgasm so I began to really move which triggered both of us. needless to say we slept well.

Worked a long day in the heat yesterday and hoped that when we went to bed, The Wife would feel amorous, but no such luck. sort of slept in this morning (did not get up till her alarm went off) and again hoped for 'something' well, she did turn toward me and rubbed my back for a minute before checking her watch and turning to get out of bed. The Ex and I have been talking about a get together and I have not gotten my hopes up because she is unreliable on that front - I sort of get it, we are not married and she has a life outside of working with me and us fucking occasionally. Anyway, we had talked about it last week but nothing happened, just too busy on both sides. Toward the end of last week, I mentioned to her that I was working from home today and tomorrow so perhaps that would work better and The Wife is working long days so we can sort of relax and not have any worries. She likes that idea so she is supposed to come by this afternoon where we can spend about 1 1/2 - 2 hours together relaxing and hopefully having good orgasms. Maybe I can even get some new photographs That would be nice. We will see.

labor day morning, I did not get up as early as usual (probably because I was really worn out from the previous week) so when The Wife woke up around 8 I was still in bed. She turned to me and we ended up sucking and fucking. Not the best ever, but certainly better than usual. I just cannot sleep in every weekend and I have told her that if I am home and she wakes up to text me and I will come back to bed, but she will not do that. Oh, well ....

So it has now been almost a month since we fucked and since we were on vacation this past weekend, I thought something would happen .... I thought wrong.
Left Thursday after work and drove to about 11 Pm and got a hotel room - she fell asleep before she hit the bed.
Drove Friday for about 8 or 8 hours to our destination (visiting family) and again nothing at bed time.
Saturday evening, my daughter got The Wife high (a bit) for the first time in her life. that was so funny. We went to bed and she started stroking my dick and I thought 'ok, here we go' but nope, nothing. Sunday evening we went to bed a bit earlier since we had to leave on Monday morning and she just fell asleep.

Just ***Frustrated***

Every time I think things are gong to straighten out, they curve left again.

We had a discussion last week and I basically told her that the reason I was not thinking about leaving, is that I am 54 and too tired to deal with change. maybe not a great outlook, but whatever.

Well, after a bit of a 'false start' on Tuesday morning where The Wife did not feel that we had enough time, I did get in a quick fuck yesterday (Wednesday) morning, Nothing special really, but at least she came a couple of times.