Friday was my eldest daughters birthday, so we offered to make the weekend special for her and her kids, Saturday we had them over for breakfast which I love because I really like to cook for my kids and grandkids after that we went to an international festival which was a lot of fun and they all enjoyed it. Following that The Wife and I had some errands to run which we did on our own. When we went to bed, I figured it has been 6 weeks so I may as well try to 'get some'. She was surprisingly compliant as I started things, but then spent 30 minutes discussing what color we should paint the bedroom which put me to sleep, so no sex after all (I really thought this blog would be different by the way things were starting last night). Today we are taking The Daughter, her husband and their kids to a safari park and lunch. It will be tiring, but lots of fun.
I hope everyone has a good weekend!

Another sexless week has gone by ......
I was sitting working on the computer with The Ex yesterday and said 'Well Fuck Me' she said don't say that, I responded it was simply a request! Her response was we really need to make time for that now that things are starting to go better in the business. Updates to follow!

At the end of the day we had to go pull some carpet out of a rental property that The Wife manages to make the new tenant happy, took a few hours ant then we went out for Pizza for dinner. Got home and watched the Tube for a while and I was wondering if she would suggest that we go to bed early as she had suggested the night before but did not expect it. I was not disappointed as she made no mention of sex and when I started to shut things down 15 minutes early she hardly moved until I was turning the lights off. We went to bed and I did not even get a good night kiss.
Like I said, I am not surprised, this is what I have come to expect.

As we went to bed, I suggested that we finish what we had not really started in the morning and her response was tomorrow we will go to bed earlier. I am not holding my breath, but we will see ....

I went to shower and get ready, since The Wife was peeing, I decided to brush my teeth before showering. When I was done brushing my teeth, The Wife had gone back and laid on the bed half nude, I went over to her and suggested that if she was laying there like that perhaps I should do 'horrible things' to her. Her response - nope, got to get to work. Now, this is true, but it would have been nice if that had been followed by perhaps you can do those things to me tonight. Nope, nada, not even a hint of that thought.
Part two (actually part 1) happened Sunday Morning when she finally found the 'fun box' that I had won at the auction (see previous blog) which I had hidden behind a chair in our bedroom. She picked it up, said 'how sweet' put it back behind the chair and that was all. Again, no movement or discussion about how it might be fun for us or something.

that is about how many times I get to fuck The Wife during an average year. Probably actually less, but I figured on average of once every 6 weeks. Pretty depressing
The up side is that I fuck The Ex at least that many times, maybe more and she is more vocal and more into it.
I do wish that The Wife would gain interest again, but Oh, well.
More thoughts later as I have to head to work

Yesterday, The Wife and I had to rehab a rental home that she manages so along with a friend and my oldest Son, we spent the day cleaning, painting, and replacing siding (not work that I do every day). By the end of the day when we got home, I was sunburned and my hands were hurting really bad from using muscles that I do not use on a regular basis. I told The Wife how bad my hands were hurting and joked that the main problem was that it would be painful to jerk off so she would have to assist me. I was sort of hoping for a positive response, but what I got was a really nasty look. My next statement was to the effect of 'I guess that was a bad ides' and she responded in the positive. This is so strange because she has made the statement a few times in the past few days about how much she loves me and how important I am to her.

The Ex, that is! She said that she really wants us to have some time to get together without distractions but right now we are both working too many hours. Next week, her youngest (not one of mine) starts school so hopefully that will get us more time together. I just love the fact that she does not even want me to kiss her (but she does) because she is so horny that she is having trouble controlling her urges.

Thursday night I was in charge of a charity auction and actually ended up as the auctioneer which was fun. The Wife chose to see a movie instead of joining me which sort of sucked (and surprised me as she is usually very supportive of my causes and loves auctions) I had a lot of fun and one of the items was a 'naughty gift basket' donated by a lady who does 'fun parties' it included lube, pasties, a rabbit, coochie cream, and much more. I saved it for almost the end of the auction and was having great fun so I decided to read the list of contents to the group. One of my friends said 'you are not reading it sexxily enough' so I convinced a beautiful girl who was there to come over and read it. I managed to get her to read about 4 items out of 12 before she was too embarrassed to continue. At one point I mentioned that if I got this my wife might not need me any more and my friend about fell over laughing and spit his food out! Finally started the bidding and there were three attendees trying to win it, but I wanted it as well. As best as we could figure the package is worth about $75 - 100, it ended up being me bidding against the cute girl (who is about 2. I won the basket for $55! After I got it home I thought about putting it on the bed to surprise The Wife, but she came home in a FOUL mood so I left it hidden behind a chair. Now I am wondering why I bothered to spend the money since she really doesn't seem to like sex anymore anyway. Oh well, the money went to a good cause ......

Last night, for some reason (tat I cannot fully explain) I decided to attempt once again to fuck The Wife. Well, as usual, I had to be the aggressor for quite a bit before she gave in. Once she indicated her willingness, I moved to eat her which I did for about 20 minutes with little response from her while she played with my dick. Finally, I got tired of licking her and getting no response so I turned around to enter her which was not easy as she was not as wet as you would expect after 20 minutes of oral. I did get in and proceeded to fuck her for about 5 minutes till we both came. As she was cumming, she got a horrible cramp in her but cheeks which caused her to push me away. I did cum in her pussy, but all in all it was not very satisfying.