First of all we are a couple and share this site. we are and older couple that has not died and are still very active with our sex lives with are circle of friends. Wife likes to flash on and off the bike. What we Don't DO is CAM or PHONE. Sorry some people don't like it but that's the way it is for us. Seems to work for our friends. If you don't like it your free to do what ever you want and have fun doing it.