I like sex games with silly arbitrary rules. Let me explain. It's fun, a GREAT deal of fun, to get naked and fuck. But sometimes it's even more fun to say, OK, we're going to get off by any means EXCEPT fucking. Forces you to be a little more creative, especially if you rule out oral as well. Maybe we'll end up with hands in each others' pants, maybe we'll end up rubbing my cock directly against her clit. Maybe her armpit, who cares, you get the idea.

I'd love to be with a woman who told me "we can do anything---ANYTHING---except remove my panties." I can think of several ways to step right up to the edge of that rule, especially if we split hairs like a lawyer.

What kind of an anything-but-that game would get YOU off?


I prefer PMs to blog comments, just because it's hard to know when you commented on the blog. You can also email throb (at) spamcop (dot) net. Women only please, don't need correspondence from men.

I saw a scene in a (non-porn) movie one time that really pushed my buttons hard. There's this older British guy. He's with a couple of women at this brothel, they're middle aged and have all their clothes on. And one of them is telling him what a disgusting dirty old man he is, listing the many things that he gets off on, each one (she seems to think) more outrageous than the last. He just takes it, not denying it, saying "Yes madam" every time. And not in a guilty way but almost in a proud way. The other woman chimes in from time to time. The one who's doing most of the talking is jerking him off the whole time! Who else thinks this would be hot?


I prefer PMs to blog comments, just because it's hard to know when you commented on the blog. You can also email throb (at) spamcop (dot) net. Women only please, don't need correspondence from men.

Naked is nice, but I especially enjoy not-quite-naked. In particular I like wearing, and being with a woman who's wearing, clothes that don't need to come off before the fucking can start. So the impulse can take you and then there are no preliminaries, there's nothing to unsnap or untie or unbuckle or unzip, you just start sliding your own very sensitive parts against the other person's very sensitive parts.

Now there is a huge industry that does nothing but make crotchless lacy panties and such. Which I appreciate, I hasten to add. But I prefer homemade fuck-me clothes, something that maybe didn't start out very sexy---that's a whole 'nother blog entry for later---and with maybe a little scissors work now is sudden-impulse-fuck-ready. Might be just a very little slit in the crotch of the pajama bottoms, just enough to let my hard dick get at you. Might be big panties with the same little slit---oh man. Or we might be talking about something like a long full skirt that can be hiked up on a moment's notice, or nice loose shorts that don't get in the way.

As for what I like to wear, well, there's these silk boxers that make me want to go go go. And long silk pajama bottoms that I love to get damp.

How about you, what do you like to wear when it's going on?


I prefer PMs to blog comments, just because it's hard to know when you commented on the blog. You can also email throb (at) spamcop (dot) net. Women only please, don't need correspondence from men.

I was pretty old before I realized that lots of women are as into hot spurting cum as men are. Is it because we can't fake orgasm? I can run my mouth all night about how attractive I think you are and how I really enjoy being around you, but if being around you makes me shoot my load, well, that pretty well proves I mean it, hmm?

I'd like to play this game with a woman: you don't believe ANY compliments I give you, unless I back them up with something hot and sticky. "Love your tits." "I don't believe you." "Oh yeah? Watch THIS." I think you look really good in that blouse. No I don't think your ass is too big, and here, let me prove it right now. Why yes, I DO like your thighs. Oh, are those your new panties? Imagine playing this for a whole weekend!

Let me know if this sounds fun to you, or if you just want to talk about it.


I prefer PMs to blog comments, just because it's hard to know when you commented on the blog. You can also email throb (at) spamcop (dot) net. Women only please, don't need correspondence from men.

Do you get off on having a secret? Is the fact that you're reading my blog right now a secret?

I'm leading a secret life just by being here. Wife isn't a swinger, isn't in any of the pics I post here, is totally unaware that I'm getting off over internet porn and having hot email exchanges with women who are doing the same. Not to mention the occasional meeting and illicit fuck in real life.

And I love it! How about you? Would you enjoy being my naughty secret? Do you get off having one?


I prefer PMs to blog comments, just because it's hard to know when you commented on the blog. You can also email throb (at) spamcop (dot) net. Women only please, don't need correspondence from men.

The idea of this blog, and the whole idea I'm on NN in the first place, is to correspond with interesting women. We might meet up at some point if that's possible, and that would be amazing, but for now it's going to be PMs here on NN, or email.

You know how to send me a PM, of course. You can also email throb (at) spamcop (dot) net. And I've got a poorly-maintained web site, entirely free and non-commercial, at [url]http://hardcore.pornparks.com/throb/[/url]. The web site has some stuff I wrote quite a while ago, lots of fantasy stuff, and all my best pics so far.

What makes a woman interesting? Mostly I'm looking for a woman who can talk about what turns her on, whatever that happens to be. Doesn't have to be freaky-deaky, although that can be its own kind of interesting, but I do want to hear something of what's in your head. I promise I'll return the favor.

If you want to sell me something, you're not interesting. Same goes if you only want me to post monitor pics of you. (But if you want to talk about monitor pics of you, because it gets you off, THAT would be INTERESTING.) If it's a one-sided conversation you're after, that is also NOT interesing. (Though in any of those cases I imagine you aren't going to be reading this blog, are you?)

Still reading? Interesting...

Out with the old blog and in with the new. I'm going to delete my pics as well, after I renew my premium membership, and repost the good stuff without repeats.