Holy shit it's hot! I feel my ankles sweating. This is like a freakin' no covers night.

Hmm, randomness from the top of my head. I hope I don't come off as vain when I make statements like: I have a nice butt.

I hope I come off as massively egoistical though.

Good night!

But what TO blog about? Do I randomly write and hope something interest claws it's way out of my mind - and doesn't split my head open and leave a bloody mess behind in it's wake?

Is that even the proper spelling of the "wake" I mean? Will I ask Google? Answers: Who knows, and sure won't.

So, it's been kinda weird to start coming in the chat room again. Much hasn't changed, but a lot has as well. Dutty is gone. Sucks royally is one way to put it. Icey is very busy, and is rarely around.

It seems like the crowd has shifted a little. There used to be a really good group in the Main Chat room, and there would often be insane fun in there. But alas, no longer. That room seems more or less dead.

Apparently when you disappear for a bit, things change... But change it sometimes good. Like say, if Peachy were to give me Reese's. That would be good.

The End. I just wasted a good three minutes of your life. You're welcome.

How am I gonna pull another miracle out?

For once, I won't lecture. For once, I will not play Mr-Know-It-All. For once, I will actually shut up.

"My friend, find someone that will love you for who you are, someone who thinks about only you when they're in the shower, or on the bus... And smiles so big their cheeks ache."

"I've met some people along the way,
Some of them split, some of them stay,
Some of them walk, some walk on by,
I've got a few friends I'll love till I die
From all of these people I try to learn,
Some of them shine, some of them burn,
Some of them rise, some of them fall,
For good or bad, I've known them all"
-True Believer, The Bouncing Souls
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Alright, I'm starting to be on the mends, and will be getting down to shooting photos soon.

I've gotten several suggestions I like. I wonder, also, how many people have ideas but are turned off by giving out their e-mail address. So if you'd prefer to leave it up to me to select the best photo, and you don't care to have all the ones I don't put up, then by all means send your idea along.

Thanks to everyone who has sent some ideas along thus far. All PMs I am still considering, so keep them coming... Which'll give me some time to get better.

Right now I'm under the weather, and thus far I haven't exactly been taking it easy. Yeah, not smart - but at least I admit openly I'm a moron.

I haven't uploaded photos in forever. I have zero ideas. I have six photos that I can upload in a day.

Here is the contest deal:
You message me a photo idea you'd like to see. If I agree to it, I will ask you for your e-mail and I will take said photos, zip them up and send you what I did. You get to keep them all, in exchange for selecting which you feel is the best one out of them all. I will upload that one to NN.

So folks - get to sending.

Today a girl asked me if a guy could find a girl physically attractive if they weren't his "physical type." I assumed that this was in some connection with the guy she was interested in that she had asked me about earlier, and who I thought was sending her hints back.

My opinion was yes, that it certainly is possible and does happen. I used to have a "physical type" I was into. After some experiences I finally just changed my "physical type" to: cute girls. Even though I preferred brunettes and redheads most of all, in the end a girl having blonde hair or say black hair, or was slightly shorter, didn't really matter. Yes, my "type" certainly would always catch my eye at first, but once I got to know certain girls, that "type" blended away and did not matter really. So I just started saying that my type was "cute girls."

I think of "physical type" as a shallow concept. Not that it's shallow to BE attracted to a certain type or to put value on physical attractiveness, but that if you're into a girl who is a blonde while you like redheads, it's actually very easy to overcome that fact. "Physical attraction" I don't think is completely linked to just looks - hence why I've been using quotation marks this whole time.

I call this the Mick Jagger Effect.

There are other factors - sense of humor, laugh, smile, etc - that add to who they are as a person, and that is a part of the physical attractiveness of a person - not just their bust size, curves or hair color... Plus there's always L'Oreal.

No one is perfect. No one will ever likely match every single check mark on your ideal (wo)man. I once asked the question of what you first noticed about a person. I'm interested in hearing what is your "physical type", along with what you actually find attractive about a person.

Here is mine.
Physical type or what turns my head at the mall as I pretend to look at a store display:
Red/Brunette, long hair, not short. Definitely notice a "fun", "laughfer's" or "happy" smile. Height - not taller than me(Says the second shortest kid out of the litter). Bust size, doesn't really matter although I'm not into fake or huge boobs. Nice legs and butt - definitely notice. Slimmer body type, not too skinny though.

What I find attractive or what's below the shallow "physical type" or what trumps it: Sense of humor. A "fun", "laughfer's" or "happy" smile. Witty banter. Goofyness. Smarts. A willingness to learn new things. An adventurous spirit. Kindness.

Ultimately - although it is late and I'm going brain dead, so my lists might change in the morning slightly - my two lists have only one thing in common. While the first list will get me to look, so long as the person fills out some of the check marks on both or even just the majority of the second - I will find that person attractive, physical and otherwise.

Because at that point they stop being the "smoking hot redhead" or the "leggy black haired chick in the white dress" - they become Sandra, Lisa, Julie. They aren't just legs, ass or boobs - they are a full, interesting person that you want to spend time with.

I hope this blog makes sense when I read it in the morning...

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A three minute and thirty six second glimpse into me.