I have had to get up super early for work most of this week, so no chance to fuck The Wife in teh AM, and she falls asleep as soon as her head hits the pillow at night. Thought I might have the opportunity this morning, but - NOPE - .
Spoke with The Ex yesterday and she said she would try to come over for us to fuck this morning, but she should have been here about 10 minutes ago and I have to shower and get tires for my truck and then off to work so I cannot wait (and she has to get to work anyway)

Well, i am off to shower and get my day started - Not working this weekend which is unusual, so we will see how things go with The Wife although I am not holding my breath.

Well, after a few 'false starts' where The Wife did not feel that we had enough time, we did squeeze in a quickie this morning.
I guess it is better than nothing.

Earlier this week (Monday / Tuesday?), we went to bed and I decided to try and get The Wife 'started'. Started kissing her and rubbing on her and then rolled over to be on top and started kissing my way South. She makes a comment that I should stop and I ask jokingly if there is something I would not normally find down there at which point she says that she has a tampon in and she is sorry, but we should be ok the next day. Well, here it is Saturday morning and no follow up from her. I am just tired of having to push for anything.
Just an update and my way of keeping a record of my lack of sex.

First - The Ex still works with me occasionally and yesterday she asked me for a raise - I So want to respond the it is supposed to be her giving me a raise.

Second - for the umpteenth time, I got a message through NN saying that they would like to setup a meeting and before I could respond (48 hours) the account is deleted.

Life goes on

The Wife and I got home at almost the same time yesterday and were both changing out of work clothes into our relaxed clothes. I had dumped the clean clothing on the bed earlier in an attempt to find clean socks. I made a joke that sex was always considered dirty but if we fucked on top of the clean clothing it was not so dirty. Not really sure where it went from there, but I ended up tweaking her nipples and next thing I knew we were on the bed. I had to pull some clothes out from under her and the phone charging cord that she leaves on the bed, but I ended up fucking her to at least 2 powerful orgasms and she had a third as I came. It was a nice Monday afternoon surprise.
I am thinking that maybe I just need to be a bit more 'dominant' in initiating sex, although that is not really in my nature. Hmmmm.

So I pointed out to The Wife last night that it was Oral Sex Day (6th day of 9th month) and her response was well you got yours over the weekend so don't get your hopes up. Oh, well, so after the snarky remark last week about me getting too frisky and then the pretty good sex over the weekend, now this remark. My response was 'oh, so we are back to once a month now?' which is generally the frequency (maybe once every 3 weeks) and she sort of did not disagree.
Well, if that is to be the case (and I am really doing everything I can to be a loving and attentive husband) then I guess we are back to where we were 3 years ago and I may just start looking for a Fuck buddy. the only constraint is 'time' I work too many hours but we will see ........

There have been a few 'quickies' over the past month, but nothing of note, and then last week we did have one and I tried to get things started the next morning and was told that I was 'getting too frisky' so I totally backed off. yesterday, The Wife came out of the bedroom in a bra and panties and asked me some weird question as we were getting ready to head out for errands. I answered and went back to whatever I was doing. We were headed to the hardware store after that and she asked me what I thought of the new bra, well my answer was I did not really pay attention since she had told me I was getting too frisky the previous week. she answered that she was 'kidding' and I should not take it so serious - how the hell else would you expect me to respond to that statement.
Well, we ran our errands and when we got home she strips and starts showing off the new bra and panty set to me. I admit it is nice and a front closure makes it even better. We did not end up fucking, but she sucked me off and I fingered both her pussy with 2 fingers at one point and then one finger in ther pussy and one in her ass which she seemed to greatly enjoy.
All in all, not a bad weekend.

I think it was Friday, but not sure. I woke up horny (like always). But this time, The Wife was as well. I played with her a bit and moved to fuck her. Started and she was wet and ready but our bed SUCKS for sex, so we had to re-position ourselves and I was no longer hard (sort of takes away from the moment) she pushed me back and sucked me back to ready and we started again and her leg cramps up - coitus interruptus - I go soft again and said let's just finish tonight, but she would not take no for an answer. she sucked me again and we continued where we had left off. I love the fact that she was not willing to let it 'end' . Oh, and in the end we both came quite hard and it was a good one.

Now, If we can just repeat at least a couple times a week.

I really enjoy 'wake up sex' I just wish mine included a partner.

Well, the weekend following her return, The Wife and I did fuck a few times, nothing particularly exciting except a quick end with doggy which is unusual for her (although she used to really enjoy it)

Last night, we had a decent fuck session with mutual oral and me fingering her to a rather explosive orgasm.