Well, after the 'surprise' activity a month ago, it has been all quiet. She says "take me when ever you want" but I have absolutely no desire to fuck someone who is not really in the mood. I tried a week or so ago, and her response is that I need to shave my dick, ok, I do that and she just wants to go directly to sleep every night.
The Ex says she wants to fuck, but as usual, she cannot seem to make time to meet up.
I have been so busy that I have hardly had time to pop in here.

Fucked The Wife twice in 2 weeks. A bit of a surprise and both were 'better than average'
First included fucking her multiple times and eating her both before and after. Ultimately, she could not take any more - I have no idea why, but I kept it hard for about 45 + minutes and just kept fucking her and she kept cumming.
Second was Monday night when we went to bed and I was horny. I had been trying to get her to fuck for a few days and I think she knew it (she should have at least). As I was trying she said we need to go to bed earlier for this and I pointed out that she has refused to do so - maybe it was the guilt, who knows - but at that point, she became a willing participant to a quite nice fuck session. She did say that I 'can have her' anytime I want, but I do not want to fuck a sleeping wife :/ .
Time will tell if she will be true to her word.

The Wife, after 'hinting' a few times on Saturday but with no follow thru, I sort of figured that it would be another dry weekend. Sunday morning, we went about our regular daily chores and I made a special breakfast. After a while, we went out to do some necessary shopping and such. Got home early afternoon and next thing I know she is naked on the bed on top of the covers, well, although I have been sort of trying to not respond when offered because so many times it is a 'false' offer, I went over and started messing with her. I do not know what got into her, but she was SO horny! I started off sucking her nipples and she was squirming, moved my hand down to finger her and she was amazingly wet - slipped a finger in to rub her G spot and continued to suck her nipples as she came at least once (maybe 2x) followed up by fucking her till we both came. We continued to play after this and she ended up sucking me hard again so I ate her as she vibed herself to another shattering orgasm ~ I am surprised she did not squirt it was so hard ~ We fucked a few more times and then rested for a while.
It was s nice way to end the year.

During the day, The Wife kept indicating that we would fuck at some point, but I was so angry with her for a multitude of reasons, that I had really no interest so when we went to bed I just turned on my side and went to sleep.
I have tried so many times and received no response from her, that she needs to feel how it feels to be ignored. Perhaps this is a bit passive aggressive, but she obviously does not realize how much she hurts me on an almost daily basis.

Last weekend, we did fuck and it was pretty good. I ate her and she blew me then we fucked. Not great, not bad, just sort of average.
Maybe I am hoping for too much?

we went out of town to visit family over Thanksgiving and I was(9sort of) expecting multiple sex opportunities based on talks with The Wife. The first day of traveling was rather rough, but we made it to our destination without loosing our luggage. Morning 2 rolls around and we are sitting on the sofa in our little private cottage (with me naked under the covers) and I manage to get her In The Mood and we do fuck, all in all, not bad, she sucked me and I fucked her and we both came. I was hopeful that there would be at least one repeat performance, hopefully with me eating her out, but 3 more mornings and multiple tries but nothing more. Oh,well, at least I have my right hand.

Last Thursday, The Ex said that she wanted to get together on Friday so I prepared by taking one of my Kangaroo pills. Thursday evening, The Wife said lets go to bed early, I responded that the only way I was going to bed early 2 nights in a row was if we were not going to sleep - well she became ill - sort of apologized to me about it and we went to sleep. Friday evening rolls around and she has a pulled muscle - ok one more day delay - Saturday evening I get home from work and .... Hold on here ... suddenly she has her period which with her means no sex.
Oh, and The Ex never showed up.
1 wasted $15 pill!

During the past week, I had setup 2 different times to fuck The Ex, and neither worked out due to her schedule / disorganization. Unexpectedly, I did fuck The Wife on Saturday afternoon which was better than average, except that it was unexpected so I was not able to plan ahead and take the necessary pill. I still performed acceptably, but not like I wanted to.

Woke up this morning feeling *extra* horny as it has been a while since we fucked. Well, usually if I suggest anything on a workday I am told 'NO', but this morning was different, I stayed in bed and moved over to her side of the bed and when she was finally awake enough to be coherent, I said something to the effect of lets make love this morning and she said yes (wow was I surprised). I got up and figured I would have to add some lubrication to her but when I put my finger in her pussy it was already quite wet. I went and started fucking her - she was so wet, I could hardly feel her - she is usually quite tight. I must have been doing something right as she started screaming and scratching my back and grabbing / pulling my nipples. She had at least 2 orgasms and then ... got a cramp ... she got over the cramp, gave me head for a few minutes and I then fucked her to another orgasm and came in her.
What a surprising Monday morning ......

I log in to FB and the Memories that come up are, occasionally, photos of The Wife when she had lost weight and I get so upset. She is pretty no matter what, but I get upset because
1 - If she really tried she could loose the weight again
2 - It is not good for her health
3 - (maybe this is really #1) she withheld sex from me pretty much all the time she was thinner for reasons that were all in her head.
Just so Frustrating and a bit depressing.