Well, honestly a bit surprised (but maybe not so much, I am not sure) but no sex for a month now. I am sort of tired of always being the one to 'push' her and have gotten tired of that so I decided to wait for her to make an advance. I still hint at wanting things to happen and she seems to be interested, but then decides to stay up late watching TV until she falls asleep on the sofa and I have to remind her that it is time to get to bed.

A bit late posting, but the week has been busy so not on computer much except for work. Sunday evening, when we went to bed, we did fuck. It was not as energetic as some, but it was decent.

We invited about a dozen of our friends to join us for dinner at Bahama Breeze at 7:30 last night and it was amazing. some of these folks we see only once every 2 years and some more often - life is like that. After dinner we went to sit on the porch for a few more drinks with our oldest daughter and her friend. She and my wife had an amazing conversation and we all had patrone shots as well as a few beers. This was the first time in a VERY long time I have closed down a bar - we left around 12:30 and they closed at 12:00.
Once we got home we went to bed and had a nice, leisurely lovemaking session. I think it was around an hour, maybe 90 minutes. I ate her to a screaming orgasm and we fucked for a bit during which I believe she had 2 more orgasms and I finally came.
Overall a very good evening.

Today marks my 25 year marriage anniversary. 10 years ago I did not think we would still be married. We are still not in a 'perfect' place, but it is definitely better.

We went to visit our son a few hours away and I was hopeful that The Wife would be 'in the mood' at least once. Although the drive was a bit stressful due to potholes and a resultant blown tire/damaged rim, it was a good trip. As things turned out, our son was out of town for a personal emergency so was not available as planned, but we did catch up for one dinner and breakfast. The Wife and I took in a museum ans just spent some time relaxing in our room since the weather sucked. Mid-Saturday, we were resting and I decided to see if she was in the mood as she had earlier suggested going back to our room to screw (her words). Although it seemed to surprise her she did reciprocate and we had a pretty decent fuck.

Saturday morning I was about to get up around 7:30 or so and, surprise! The Wife woke up and wanted to play. We had a pretty decent time, she sucked me, I ate her and sucked on her tits and we fucked till we both came. Shorter session than has become 'usual' but pretty satisfying.

I chose to sleep in since there was not a real rush and I was worn out. To my surprise, The Wife got up a bit earlier than usual (when I was finally about to get up) and was in a frisky mood. We ended up having about an hour long sex session. She blew me, I ate her to at least one (maybe 2 orgasms) and fucked her to (I think) 2 more. Overall a better than average Saturday morning.

Had a very lazy day on Sunday and when we went to bed, The Wife was topless and started playing with my dick, but I was honestly too tired to respond. Decided to try and sleep in on Monday morning and see what happens. I did sleep in except for getting up to pee a couple of times and once she woke up she continued where she started at bedtime. She blew me for a bit and I started to play with and suck on her tits followed by also fingering her which brought her to her first orgasm, I then moved to eat her for a bit followed by fucking and another orgasm. All in all a pretty decent way to celebrate Christmas.

We went on a vacation to Germany and Netherlands. I have not quite figured out why, but when we travel now, she will sleep without a shirt on but when we are at home, she always wears a shirt - says her boobs get in the way of turning over in bed and needs the shirt **But Why Not When On Vacation??**
Anyway, we did fuck twice on the trip, once in Germany and once in Amsterdam. I had hoped and prepared for more, but, oh well.
She seemed to enjoy both times and came vocally.

Well, it has been 3 weeks since any activity in the bedroom (although I have tried numerous times) but Friday night we had a good day and were relaxed so I thought to try again. We went to bed and I started hugging her and rubbing on her nipples as well as rubbing her back both of which are usually 'starters' for her. After probably 15 - 20 minutes of this I thought to take things a bit further but as I was doing so she gave me a very exasperated look sort of like 'Not Now' or 'Is This Really Necessary' - she did not say this, but it was in her face - I immediately stopped and told her that if she is not interested, I am not going further. WELL ...... Suddenly she is interested and starts blowing me and asking to continue, but I was no longer in the mood. she did cuddle up to me to go to sleep, but nothing happened. I sort of hoped that she would make up for this last night (Saturday) but nothing.
We did talk a bit after I shut things down and she said that we are always too tired but I pointed out that I have tried to get things going a number of times and there is no reciprocity on her part - she did not have a good answer to that .
Well, a week from now we are going on a 2 week vacation to Germany and Amsterdam so we will see how that goes.
Truthfully, there is a part of me that hopes she feels horrible when I shut things down since she did that to me for so many years.