The Ex came over and after breakfast and some real work, she was ready to fuck. She wanted to fuck on my back deck, but knowing that my neighbor was doing yard work made me quite nervous and jr basically had stage fright so we ended up in my room upstairs where we had a nice but short fuck. She was quite nervous about hurting me since I am only 10 days out from the surgery but there was no issue with pain. Looking forward to more later this week and if my neighbor is not home, perhaps we will get into the Hot Tub as well.

Yesterday we had to take down and cut up a large tree which we (with the assistance of my son) did in about 90 minutes. It was so badly eaten by termites that it just exploded when it hit the ground. This morning we really felt it! This evening when we got home, The Wife said it was time to sit in the hot tub to ease the pain in her muscles so who am I to disagree? While in the tub, I again brought up the thought if getting sexxy in the tub and she said she would never consider having sex or anything like it in a hot tub as it is too messy. Since when is she such a prude? Oh well..... one can dream. Will probably have some hot action in the tub with The Ex at some point anyway.

When I got up this morning I started with the usual morning stuff and after a bit The Wife came out of her room to join me She said she did not sleep well because she had a 'weird' dream. I inquired what it was about and she said that in the dream she found out that I was cheating on her. Hmmmm Well, I am sleeping with The Ex and in a way, since we were married and have known each other for over 30 years it does not really feel like cheating. That and the fact that we have been fucking pretty regularly for over 5 years now and The Wife has lost most of her interest in sex for over 8 years.

Well, still have not had a chance to 'test out' the revised equipment except for jerking off a few times this week. The Ex now refers to it as 'Thing one and Thing two' and she has promised that we will put them thru their paces on Monday.
This afternoon, I informed The Wife that I would be waiting for her naked in the hot tub when she got home. This announcement did not get a very warm reception (no surprise) and when she got home I was actually in the house naked but with a towel around my waist she, followed me out to the tub still dressed from work and sat in a lounge chair as I got in the tub naked. She sat and talked to me for a bit then went inside. I almost fell asleep in the tub waiting for her to return and when she did it was with a sport bra top and some type of bottom - minimal skin showing. She did later explain that she had 'started' and did not want to bleed in the tub which explains her bad attitude for the past few weeks. We did sit together in the tub for about an hour then went inside to make dinner and watch TV for a while.

I tried to get things 'started' with The Wife on Sunday, sort of fooling around with her boobs and telling her that we should go back to bed and fool around since it was day 3 from when I had the surgery. Actually she came out wearing a pretty tight top without a bra and her nipples showing, so I simply tried to play with them telling her that I was trying to 'turn her on' (LOL) she pushed me away and I said something about we should go back to bed and test out my modified equipment. Well ..... as expected, she pushed me away and said 'some other time' ahhh somehow I doubt it.
This morning The Ex came by as usual and was asking about the surgery so I told her what I had experienced and showed her the scars - really still the stitches -. She admitted that she wanted to fool around but was not feeling up to it. We are working together tomorrow and will have breakfast at my house so we will see what happens.
I am sort of wondering if anyone wants me to post a pic of my dick with the stitches still in. not really horrible, but may be interesting to some. If you want me to, post or message me and I will try to do it tomorrow

Well, 24 hours ago I was at the doctor getting my vasectomy. I was worried about pain and swelling or whatever ..... Well, I sat most of the day with frozen peas on 'the boys' and there was surprisingly little pain and only minor discomfort. Woke up this morning and still no pain. This may be easier than I expected.
The Doc said no sex till Sunday/Monday so it is likely to be a quiet weekend.
Hope everyone has a great and sexxy weekend!

Came by this morning and we worked on a few things for business. When that was done, i made her some breakfast and we talked a bit about my vasectomy that is coming up this Friday. She is concerned about it especially since I have not met the doctor just checked his references on BBB and Angies List. I made a point of telling her that I had resisted jerking off this morning in hopes of fucking and she asked what it would take to get me to completely stop jerking off. Would we have to have sex every day or every other day? I answered that, as she knows, I have always had a high sex drive, but if she wanted to commit to having regular sex, I would definitely do my best to not jerk off.
Hmmmmm.... Could be interesting.

I realized that my earlier blog might have come across as *mean*. It was not meant that way - we spent a huge amount of money on her surgery and the follow up surgery part of it was my inheritance from my grandfather. It would not be so bad but she makes absolutely no effort to get the weight back off and it just frustrates me to no end.

Had a brief, but interesting discussion with The Ex earlier today. She asked since I am getting 'sniped' this friday and The Wife is quitting Birth Control pills that if she suddenly had a renewed interest in sex would I join in and my answer was that it was unlikely. I think it would be a while before I am really ready to have a regular sexual relationship with her for a number of reasons.
1) She needs to know what it feels like to be ignored
2) She needs to take care of herself and loose weight (I know this sounds shallow, but we spent a huge amount of money on weight loss surgery and follow up surgery and she makes little to no attempt to loose the weight that she re-gained)
3) See #1

I would eventually like to have a regular sexual relationship with The Wife as we did early on, but it will be awhile before that would happen I think.

A High School buddy of mine showed up in town unexpectedly. He is in a band and was 'passing thru' but had a one night gig here so I told him the The Wife and I as well as some friends would come listen to them play. We went down to a real *Dive Bar* place has been around for over 40 years and is sort of 'scary' but not dangerous. Had a good time followed by a decent dinner at a new (for us) restaurant. during the evening we discussed with our friends the new 40" TV that I got off of Craigslist for the upstairs room (My Room) and The Wife was complaining that she had not yet seen it except in photos. I pointed out that she was always welcome to join me upstairs to see it and she said she would that evening but so far she has not made any effort.
I have made a number of hints toward sexual activity this weekend and she just blows me off. Came home to her walking around the bedroom with her top off and asked her if she was trying to get me excited and she said 'no I am just trying to get dressed'. Ok, so that is what she was doing, but there are so many other answers that could have been given....
Oh, for those who are interested (LOL) this coming Friday I will be getting my vasectomy so I may be off for a few days at that point depending on how bad the pain is. After that, I will, most likely, be on here quote often so that I can get out any last little swimmers as quickly as possible. I am SO looking forward to eating a cream pie out of The Ex!