it feels strange that I am basically avoiding any opportunity to have sex with the current Wife because it would feel as if I am 'cheating' on my Ex. Well, that and when we do have sex, she is really not very into it.

This is a video from Ann Summers and adult toy company

[url]https://www.youtube.com/watch?v=w8opZP0a4Q4&feature=player_embedded[/url]

I was talking with a contractor buddy of mine who is going thru a divorce and we were discussing 'opportunities' we have had with clients and he related a woman in our town who had offered to exchange sex for home repairs. We discussed it a little further and I realized it was a lady whom I had been talking to on this site. I sent him a non-naked photo of her and he confirmed it to me. That is sooo freaky! She and I lost touch about 2 years ago before we could connect as she no longer lives in my town.

Had time for a quickie with the 'ex' yesterday. I really DO want to get some pictures, but realized that both of my cameras were in my car after I was undressed. We did use the sponge this time as well as a condom, but the condom slipped off as I softened and she is terrified that she might get pregnant. That would really screw up both of our lives so she is looking into the morning after pill for peace of mind.

well, I really wanted to update this Sunday morning, but ....
On Friday night, I was complaining to the Wife (as usual) that it had been way too long since we had had sex (8 weeks at this point). As usual, she ignored me. When we went to bed, I decided to at least try to get her interested but all that happened was that she curled herself up to me, made me frustrated, and went to sleep. When we got up in the morning, she wanted to go to some yard sales, so I figured I would try to continue the previous nights attempt and woke her up early but after 30 minutes of fooling around when I tried to perform 'the act' she squeezed her legs closed like a vise. At that point, I just got out of bed and got in the shower. I figured we were back to the usual routine. We went out and had the planned Saturday activities of shopping and such and then went out to dinner and for a walk to listen to the blues music emanating from the clubs and then on home. I slept as far as I could get from her on the bed.
Overslept on Sunday morning. Got up to pee, and when I came back out she was like, come on back to bed. (Now, I should have left the room so she could see how it feels to be rejected, but I am just too much of a sex fiend) I climbed in bed and she starts running her hands up and down my body, playing with me and I start fingering her, she gets her bullet and starts using it on my dick which I love. I turn around and start going down on her (and realize that the 'ex' tastes better) we stay like this for about 30 minutes or so and then I finally have enough and have to fuck her. As usual she is energetic about this and after about 5 - 10 minutes I cum and so does she. All in all, a pretty good fuck, but they are way too few and far between, so I will continue doing the 'ex' whenever I get the opportunity.

This time it was pretty well planned. The Wife has a fixed meeting on Wednesdays so I know that the house will be unoccupied. The 'ex' and I are actually friends and are in business together and have a meeting on Wednesday Morning so after the meeting we went back to the house and went to the guest bedroom. She wanted to get right down to business - no oral this time! before I knew it, she was naked and had her tits out with the nipples getting hard like little pencil erasers. She said put on the rubber, and get inside me now. who am I to argue? I put on the rubber and started fucking (she usually cannot cum from intercourse so this was unusual) We went at it for about 10 minutes or so but she still had not cum so we switched to her on top so I could play with her nipples, in about another 5 minutes or so she came HARD now it was my turn, I started fucking her hard with her still on top after a few more minutes, I came and she said she was surprised how hard I came because she felt it even thru the rubber (her words). I am hoping that this will be a fairly regular thing on Wednesdays since I am still not getting anything except an occasional kiss from the wife (and they are more like a kiss from a friend).
Added thoughts:
So I called her later and told her that this may have been one of the best times that she and I have ever had together (since she came with me fucking her) and that I hoped to have repeat performances every few weeks. She replied that she hoped for 'weekly'(!) WOW - I can hope so and promise to get photos soon. For a 44 YO with 5 kids she still has a pretty good body.

well, I am feeling much better thanks to modern medicine - Drugs are good! Hydrocodone I love you.

FUCK!!!! I hate kidney stones.

Well, The Wife was out all day yesterday and the ex and I had scheduled to spend some time together, but we both ended up having crazy work schedules but managed to get together toward the end of the day. While we were headed to my house, I called the Wife to find out when she would be headed home and she said she was headed out right then. Since it was raining very hard, I suggested that for 'safety' she take the long way home (about 30 minutes) thus giving me and the Ex a little bit of time. We went into the house and sh started stripping almost as soon as the door was closed. I grabbed a condom and followed her to the guest bedroom where she was laying down with her legs spread. I started going down on her and she started moaning like she always does. We both knew that time was short so luckily she was able to cum quickly and then I put my now rock hard dick into her and we fucked until I came. We quickly cleaned up and she went home with both of regretting that is was so quick. My frustration came later when The Wife did not get home for almost 1.5 hours. Oh well ... Hopefully more next week, and The Ex said we definitely will take pictures next time.

Well, three nights this week, I have been at business events with the ex (we share some business interests) Wed. and Thurs. I had her ride with me since The Wife was not going along. Nothing happened Wednesday evening as the event ran very long and we both were worn out and wanted to get home. Last night (Thursday) we managed to leave at a decent time and when we got back to my place The Wife was still out so we got in a little cuddling and I fingered her for a few minutes (she was in a dress and never wears underwear) would have gone further, but we were worried about The Wife returning. We went into the house for a few minutes so she could see a new bird that arrived that afternoon and as she was leaving thru the garage, I stuck my head under her dress and got in a few licks of her delicious pussy. Hoping to get a chance to fuck her again next week.
I hope everyone has a great and sexxy weekend!