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surfybum likes this
Two things: 1) confidence, and 2) responsiveness to the other person’s needs and desires
(11 days ago)
Doesn’t steal the duvet or hog the bed.
(11 days ago)
Don’t get me started on snoring and farting …… I’ll try harder 😂😂
(11 days ago)
To be clearly present, there in mind and body. To fully give yourself to the moment and indulge in all sensations, to be passionate without overthinking it. To satisfy your partner’s needs.
(11 days ago)
WendySilvia likes this
More on my second point: I think the better you get to know the person - and the more you can anticipate their needs and desires - the better you get.
(11 days ago)
An ex of mine always used to say " you're only as good as the person you're with" which makes sense.
(11 days ago)
To communicate about what each person likes and dislikes. A good time in bed naturally follows.
(11 days ago)
Doesn't pee the bed or fall out.
(11 days ago)
You mean after I check to make sure he doesn't have croissants in his pockets (I hate crumbs in bed)?
(11 days ago)
Comfy cool mattress and supportive pillow
(11 days ago)
To be attentive to partners need and have good communication, helps of course if your partner like same stuff as you
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Doesn't fall asleep right after he orgasms 😉
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I’m adding one more thing to my list: a little bit of luck that you have found someone with whom you are compatible
(11 days ago)
Some people wouldn’t want to admit it - they’d rather just think they’re objectively ‘good’ - but luck is definitely a factor.
(11 days ago)
When I eat biscuits in there and dont get crumbs all over it.
(11 days ago)
Yup, compatibility. Doesn’t really matter how ‘good’ anyone is, unless you’re compatible, it’s not going to work.
(10 days ago)
^Same as Mrs T. We've had our share in the lifestyle and neither of us has ever been satisfied they way we satisfy each other. We've concluded that nobody ever will which gives us strength as a couple
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the only bad lover is the one not willing to teach or learn from a partner (in my opinion)
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Hi Arti, and that comes from communication. Which is lacking in too many relationships. Talk to each other people!
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