Well I was just plain wore out (and a wee bit sore) to attempt to write about this weekend on Sunday night, I ended up going to bed at 8:30pm Sunday night - the same time our son does, if that is any indication of the previous nights/mornings activities lol.

Saturday afternoon we drop our son off at my mom's and head over to T&K's neck of the woods. We started off with meeting for a coffee and just hanging out and shooting the breeze to just relax and unwind after a busy morning. We finished up and went back to their house and hung out some more, chatting with friends online with the cams on. K and I were playing around on cam, kissing and fondling eachother and then we finally said enough of the computers and had the guys get them off the bed so we could go get some dinner. We decided on a restaurant but it was so crowded we couldnt even find a space to park so we opted for another. We made it before the rush and were seated pretty quickly. I sat next to T and my hubby sat next to K. We ordered appetizers and our food and had a good time joking with our waiter. He had a really cool sense of humor and it just looked like 2 couples out for dinner. He would see T kiss me and my hubby kissing K, so it all looked normal. Till the bill came. Both guys threw down their credit cards and said to split it down the middle, and T had the idea that he and my hubby should switch seats really fast so they were each back with their own wives. The poor waiter was quite stunned and confused when he realised that the women were now kissing DIFFERENT men than they had been before. All he said was "Oh...you switched..." before walking away. We just busted up. It was hilarious to see the looks on people's faces, as I am sure they had noticed what had happened. We made sure to leave him a really good tip, he was a great waiter.

We headed back to T&K's house for the real fun. It was going to be ladies first, the guys would have to wait and hang out till K and I had our fun. She and I were laying side by side on their huge (I mean enormous) bed and just kissing and touching - this girl is a fantastic kisser, I could seriously have kissed her all night long - but I wanted a lot more, so I moved down and started to gently suck her nipples, first one side then the other while I stroked the insides of her thighs. I then kissed down from her breasts, down her belly and straight to her pussy. I swear I was salivating, I wanted to taste her so bad. She had such a pretty pussy and I started to lick her and suck gently on her clit. She was moaning louder and louder and I could feel myself getting wetter. I just wanted to devour this girl, I couldn't get enough of her. I can honestly say I have never wanted another woman as badly as I wanted her. I can't recall how many times she came, and I kinda forgot the boys sitting on the sidelines watching. I was so focused on what I was doing between her legs that I was a little startled to feel a hand on my ass. Then another. Then I felt a finger slide into my pussy and then out again. It was such a tease, I lifted my head from between K's legs long enough to say "whoever's hand that is needs to keep doing what they are doing, please" so I got fingered while I continued to give K's pussy the attention it deserved. Both of us were moaning and finally when I let her up my face was just covered in her juices. OMG she tasted so good.

She said it was my turn now, so I lay down and she was kissing my pussy all over and swirling her tongue around my clit. It was fantastic. I LOVE men, I could never live well or happily without cock, but I love having a girls mouth on me; they are so soft and a totally different feeling then being eaten out by a man. I had my hands in her hair and I was moaning and whimpering like there was no tomorrow and nearly lost it when she started to fuck me with her fingers while she licked my clit. I could see just off to the side of my head that her husband T had his cock out and it was getting stiff so I grabbed him and pulled him to my mouth and started sucking him while K was lapping at my pussy. I had a couple of orgasms and then I could tell the guys had had enough and were getting impatient so I pulled her up to me and we kissed again and then split up. My hubby with her and T with me. What happened with them I can't exactly say as I was pretty focused on what I was feeling.

T was kissing me and touching me all over for what seemed like forever, it felt so relaxing. He spread my legs and began to softly lick me. He just kept licking me and sucking my pussy, just enough to wind me up and then back off. He did this over and over until I thought I would go crazy and then finally the gloves came off and he filled me up with 2 fingers and sucked on my clit. It felt like I had been hit by a truck, the orgasm was so intense and my body had been wound so tight for so long I was just exhausted. Not to mention covered in sweat like I had been on the treadmill for an hour. And then he did it all over again. Whatever was going on next to me with my hubby and K was going just as strong, as I ended up grabbing K's hand and she had ahold of my leg. Some time later the boys put on the condoms and then the serious business began. I was on my knees and I believe K was as well and my god did he fuck the hell out of me. The best way I could describe it was just like 2 frantic, rutting animals. It was like being fucked by a man with 10 hands, because it seemed like they were everywhere at once: squeezing my tits, on my hips, on my shoulders, wrapped in my hair and pulling my head back till my back arched and I was nearly upright. I didn't know which way was up but I didn't really care. He wrapped his arm around my waist and pulled me almost onto his lap as he slammed his cock into me. I think I came 2 or 3 times and had screamed myself hoarse by the time he was done. I just sank face down in the bed. I had no strength in me to do much more than breathe. The room was like a sauna, we were all hot and sweaty and the place reeked of sex. I was pretty much out of it. We thought we would take a break and go to an all-night diner for a midnight snack (it was after midnight) so we called a friend who wanted to meet us there and his GF wanted to come too, so she drove down as well. They are another couple who swing as well. We all just chilled and talked and I ordered a chocolate milkshake and bacon of all things. I just wanted something salty and sweet. Service was wacky, it was after the clubs had closed so there was a lot of people in costume after various Halloween parties so it made for interesting people watching. We ate, paid and said goodbye to J and G and the 4 of us went back to T&K's house. I couldnt take another fucking at that point so I ended up sucking T off and we all kind of climbed under the covers. T conked out right away but K and I and my husband talked for a while till we all kind of dozed off. We were pretty tired. At some point I woke up and gave my husband a BJ and K woke T up enough to climb on top of him and ride him. It was around 5 am I think, then we all passed out. I woke up with T's hardon poking me in the belly but we were both kind of half asleep. He just stroked my pussy and slowly fingered me while I played with K's boobs. He the went down on me and licked me till I came. I was still on my back when he got a condom, but he needed to be a little bit harder so I sat up and pushed him back and licked and sucked his cock until he pulled me off. I lay back and he slid inside of me. It was much slower and less frantic than before. He was raised up and angled over me and my legs were wrapped around his waist. He was at just that perfect angle and must have hit my G spot just right as I ended up with a big messy orgasm that left a puddle on the bed after we finished. My hubby and K had been fucking in the meantime as well. T had to leave for a few minutes to pick up one of their kids and drop him off at a birthday party, so while K hit the shower My hubby and I ended up fucking. It was somewhere close to 11am, not actually sure of the time. Afterwards K and I cooked breakfast for us all. I cooked bacon and eggs while she made blueberry Belgian waffles. The boys hung out at the kitchen table and farted around on their laptops trying to fix a wireless connection. We sat down to a nice big brunch. It was very relaxing. I was beyond tired. I think I slept maybe 3 hours at the most that night/morning. We came home and my husband had to go see a client for a tech support call so I fell asleep for about 40 minutes. Our son came home a little later. I was so out of it, I had no energy. I asked my husband to go pick up dinner as I had no intention of getting up off the couch. He went out and got us some dinner, bless his heart and I ate and then had to go to bed. I just couldn't stay awake any longer. I went to bed the same time as our son - 8:30pm. I was spent. Well fucked and sore. It was a good kind of sore though. Still a little on the tender side today, but it was worth it.

Puurrs to all,

Currently listening to: Moby "South Side"

Damn, I just got back from the gym after almost 2 weeks of doing nothing and I feel like Guido and Fat Tony have worked me over with a rubber hose. I hurt from the neck down. I haven't had the energy lately to work out or do much of anything.

I had had my IUD removed and I was back to my normal hellish period. I had forgotten to take my iron and so I got very sick and weak, what a bitch. Almost 11 days of that shit. It kind of put a damper on our fun lately, as we have been spending quite a bit of time with another couple. We were stuck with a lot of "vanilla" time which is cool. We all have a lot in common and have kids so it has been lots of hanging out and groping, etc. Saturday we went out to dinner and ended up back at their house and since I was out of commission (damn period) it turned into a cock sucking-plus-a-little-more session, which was fine by me. I had no idea what my husband was doing to K, all I heard was a bunch of moaning from her and eventually a lot of groaning from him lol. I was preoccupied with T's cock. When I pulled down his boxers I had a bit of a "moment" as his cock is unusually thick. I am talking as big around as my wrist. My husband is neither small nor narrow, but this was a pretty fat cock. It was one width from head to base, the whole way down. My hubby on the other hand is very wide at the base and tapers slightly to the tip. Both guys are roughly the same length so that wasn't an issue, I was just trying to figure out how I would stuff such a fat cock-head into my mouth! Well somehow I managed, trooper that I am and sucked him off like there was no tomorrow. In just a few short minutes his eyes were rolling back in his head and I got a mouthful of cum. He said afterwards he was surprised he had cum so fast, and that I had sucked the life out of him. Another job well done lol. I swear there is nothing more empowering to be giving a BJ and watching the expression on the guy's face as he is close to cumming...It is such a rush for me to know I have him right where I want him, control freak that I am...

Now that my period seems to be over, we have a date with them on Saturday so we shall see how that goes.

Puurrs to all,


Currently listening to: ELO "Twighlight"

Yep it's Monday again, folks. Eeesh, am I tired. Had a whirlwind weekend so no time to log in and update. I will have to do another entry about the evening we had with T&K the current couple we are playing with. No time right now, gotta get my kid ready for school and run the carpool like a good mommy.

Puurrs to all,


Currently listening to: Concrete Blonde "Everybody Knows"

Ahahhahahahaha!!! Behold:

This is my most favorite song of all time. I can't explain why but it has been my favorite since the first time I ever heard it. I was just listening to it in my car and it very much suits the sort of moody mood I am currently in.


Black Metallic


I've never seen you when you're smiling
It really gets under my skin
You say it's easy when it's faster
I still can't guess what you're after

It's the colour of your skin
Your skin is black metallic
It's the colour of your skin
Your skin is black metallic
Your skin is black metallic
Your skin is black metallic

I think of you when you're sleeping
Of all the secrets that you're keeping
You can't stay all day under the covers
'Cause under there you'll discover

It's the colour of your skin
Your skin is black metallic
It's the colour of your skin
Your skin is black metallic
Your skin is black metallic
You're turning black metallic

It's the colour of your skin
It's the colour of your skin

Your skin is black metallic
Your skin is black metallic
Your skin is black metallic
You're turning black metallic

It's the colour of your skin
Your skin is black metallic....



-By Catherine Wheel

I am feeling extra cranky and mean today. I am in one of those dissatisfied with everything modes. It doesn't help that I am bloated and crampy and feel like someone has spent the night jumping up and down on my lower back.

I love love love being a girl - except for this monthly crap. Meh. Maybe if I go shopping or something it will make me feel better. It did on Sunday. I was feeling icky and down in the dumps so I walked into Marshall's to look for a cute scarf and ended up walking out with a pair of high heeled thigh-high black boots. They were even on sale! Marked down from $119.95 to $49. I felt good for a couple hours after that, I guess 'retail therapy' has it's place, and my husband complained not at all when I tried them on and showed him, but he doesn't tend to make eye contact or come near me much this time of the month so he probably figured it was in his best interest to not complain.

Anyhow, I am gonna go make me some tea and go be surly on the couch for a while.

Puurrs to all,

Currently listening to: System Of A Down "Aerials"

I am back to square one now, what a drag.

A while back I got an IUD. According to my doc it was the answer to my prayers, it would deliver me from the miseries I had been experiencing monthly since going off the Pill. I embraced the IUD like the savior it was; rescuing me from grinding cramps, bleeding to the point of anemia and laying ill and unwell in bed for days at a time. It was either this or go back on the Pill, which I really didn't want. Yes I know this is terribly un-sexy but it has been an aspect of my life that I have been battling for a very long time, so it's a part of me like it or not.

The Mirena IUD was put in and I was highly pleased to see that it did work as it was supposed to and pretty much instantly. My periods became almost nonexistant and I had zero cramps and other yuckies. It was great. I was thrilled. My body however maybe not so much...

Little things were starting to happen, like strange pains here and there. Random spotting that would just appear and poof! be gone or last for days. Then the last few months it's like I woke up one morning and my uterus had mutinied. It wanted the IUD OUT and it wanted it out NOW. It tried every trick in the book: piddling periods that were hardly of any merit except they lasted for 12 fucking days, turning my cycle into a total guessing game. Making it impossible to determine when my period would come and really putting a cramp in our social calendar swinging-wise. My cycles would run anywhere from 19 days to 30 days between periods, and they would come without warning. Oh and the absolute worst? The dry pussy. I just could not handle that one. I am a girl with a constantly moist pussy. It is not uncommon for me to change my panties several times a day and leave big soppy wet puddles during sex. The IUD fucked me over bigtime, in that regard.

I threw in the towel and had it pulled out a couple weeks ago and am now back to start. My period started yesterday with a vengeance, same as it ever was. It is a misery. A painful, bloated, messy misery. My options have dwindled to nil; I either suffer or go back on the Pill, which I don't want to do after having such nasty side affects, or have some gruesome medeival-sounding procedure that entails cauterizing the lining of my uterus that may or may not work to ease my periods. I am basically damned if I do and damned if I don't. This is why I have been so non-present here, lately. I just haven't had the energy for it. Not for the forums, or contemplating taking new pics and barely paying attention to my blog. I have been at loggerheads with my uterus for weeks now and I guess it won. What a bitch.


Puurrs to all,

Currently listening to: Ultravox "Vienna"

For all of those in my life that have pissed me off tonight, as well as those that shall be pissing me off tomorrow - I offer you this:




Fuck you very much, and you may kiss my wide white ass while you are at it.

I just got finished spraying 2 dozen white silk roses black. They went from pristine and virginal white to grim and dour black. They look marvelous.

Why can't every day be Halloween...?

It's been a really busy few days; no time to sit and update this thing.

I spent most of my Friday with my mom doing the girls day out and shopping. I see my mom all the time. We live but 6 streets away from my folks so we have a pretty close and constant relationship. But that day was a little different. She told me some things that I never knew about, about my father and our family that I had no idea. It was strange but very pleasant to have her open up like that. My mom tends to keep things close to the vest so it was a novel thing. It was like I could have asked her anything and she would have let it out, no matter what it was. She was in just that sort of mood. We had a really pleasant day together and I was actually sad it had to end, which is NOT how it normally is lol. Normally I would be like "Shit, I just want to get this over with, I have so much to do!!" Maybe that is what happens when you spend so much time with someone; you start to view the time spent with them as almost a sort of chore.

After I left my mom I went to pick my son up from school and I was feeling kind of crappy. I had gotten caught in a downpour while out with my mom, I was literally soaked to the skin. I had been trying to fight off a nasty cold for the past couple days by eating zinc like a fiend, but I think I caught a chill. I was all shivery and had a small fever by the time my husband came home so I went to bed. He had surprised me by coming home a couple hours early so I could rest a little. He woke me up a few hours later and asked if we wanted to meet up with our friends T & K and their kids for dinner. I wasn't feeling like cooking and K had the same cooties as me (we both got sick at the same time). I said fine, because I had zero intentions of cooking. We met at a local family style place and had a nice meal. T & K are some of our swinger friends, but we spend a lot of time just hanging with them and doing "vanilla" stuff and that includes stuff with our kids. It is the ultimate example of "friends with benefits." It was still pretty early so we invited them all back to our house so the kids could play in the arcade. My husband converted a portion of our basement to an arcade with over 30 arcade games so we spent the evening playing games and hanging out. Another mutual friend - J also came over and spent some time as well. The kids were in heaven playing all the games and I could just sit back and relax. Everyone pretty much entertained themselves, so I could be a lazy hostess lol. I hadn't realised it had gotten so late until everyone left - it was almost 2 a.m. Holy shit!. Our son had never ever been up that late before so we put him to bed and we both went to bed as well.

Saturday we spent shopping mostly, but we met T & K for coffee for a couple hours after we dropped our son off at his grandparent's house. We hung out and talked and gossiped and had a coffee. They had tickets to the Sharks game so we had to say our goodbyes and be on our way after about 2 hours. They went to get their kids and head to the game and we got our kid and went to the mall and did some more shopping and had a little dinner. We had basically spent the entire day out of the house so it was nice to eventually get home and relax for a few minutes before going to bed early. I was still feeling kind of ho-hum, but doing better. Those zinc lozenges I have been gobbling down seem to have helped a great deal.

Now I have to get ready to head out for the day again, we have to go visit my husband's grandfather in the hospital. He is recovering from a hip surgery, so that and a trip to Costco is on our agenda today.

Puurrs to all,

Currently listening to: The hum of my hard drive